(Closed) Sexy question!! (filled to the brim with TMI)

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: What happens if you don't finish during sex?
    He takes care of it. : (113 votes)
    34 %
    I fake it. : (41 votes)
    12 %
    I bitch about it and hope for better next time. : (29 votes)
    9 %
    I take care of it. : (40 votes)
    12 %
    What do you mean finish? I can finish? : (33 votes)
    10 %
    I always finish during, so this has never been an issue. : (43 votes)
    13 %
    Other(explain) : (32 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    If I dont Finish then Fi. As he states it “Fixes that problem” I am glad I dont think its fair if he gets to and I dont…

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Most guys (in my experience) usually don’t have a “common practice” to get you there whichever way. Thou my Fiance does, and has done from the start – maybe that’s why he is a Fiance cos he cares as much as me about pleasing 🙂

    Post # 5
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    357 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I have heard from many guys that they only care about the girl getting off if they care about the girl. If they aren’t really into the girl then they finish and they are done…..but most guys that are actually in a relationship will “take care of it” because they care about their girl and they want to make her happy

    Post # 6
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    5654 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Hmmmm there have been only 2 occasions since getting married that I haven’t gotten “there” and I figure being pregnant has had a LOT to do with that… pretty much nothing worked & not for lack of trying on both our parts. lol

    Otherwise Darling Husband has always gotten me there BEFORE he got there so it’s never been an issue. *shrugs shoulders*

    Post # 7
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    213 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    My man BETTER please me more than 3 times and then and only then is it his turn LOL I have standards here!

    Post # 8
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    899 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    He takes care of it. Or else.

    Post # 11
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    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    @runsyellowlites: same situation. The only time I haven’t is since being pregnant.

    He’s always taken care of me first and if not he keeps going 🙂 

    Post # 12
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    2691 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    I haven’t ever been able to finish during (I’m one of those unlucky ladies) so my SO will take care of me.

    Post # 13
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    119 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I usually finish during, but ifdiplomat it’s not really a huge deal. To be honest I don’t find theother ways of finishing as satisfying as just doing the deed and not finishing. But my Fiance does a good job during usually, and if not I don’t worry about it, there’s always tommorow

    Post # 14
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    1572 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    It depends on how I feel. I don’t need to have an orgasm every single time that we have sex (and I define sex fairly loosely – it doesn’t always mean intercourse for me, but can include oral sex, etc). While I do have an orgasm the majority of the time that we have sex, it’s not every time (I’ve been on some medications that make it take longer for me to have an orgasm or very difficult). For me, sex can be extremely enjoyable with or without an orgasm so it’s not something that I “need” to have happen. Also, it’s worth noting that roughly 1/3 of American women don’t orgasm from intercourse alone – oral sex is the best way for a woman (from anywhere!) to have an orgasm. If I am having sex of any sort with my partner and he has an orgasm and his erection has gone down AND I still would like an orgasm (but haven’t had one), I’m likely to ask him to help me out. Now, I’m a big girl and am quite skilled at giving myself an orgasm, so I may do that, but still be touching/kissing my partner as that feels more like sex or an extension of sex to me. All that said, if we are having sex and are likely to have intercourse, I typically have at least one orgasm before his penis even grazes my vulva let alone vagina. He’s just a generous sort of man that way. 

    Post # 15
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @MissComicBook: Just speaking as a sex educator here, but only about 1/3 of women (in America, at least – from studies I’ve read but its pretty on par with all over) are able to orgasm from intercourse alone. There’s definitely ways to up your chances of having an orgasm during intercourse if that appeals to you. Just wanted to say that you’re not alone – there’s lots of great ways to have orgasms and this is just one!

    Post # 16
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    2691 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    @MsLobizon: Yea, I’ve heard that statistic, but I still count myself as unlucky, lol.

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