(Closed) Sexy question!! (filled to the brim with TMI)

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: What happens if you don't finish during sex?

    He takes care of it.

    I fake it.

    I bitch about it and hope for better next time.

    I take care of it.

    What do you mean finish? I can finish?

    I always finish during, so this has never been an issue.


  • Post # 47
    2693 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2008

    If I don’t finish (or if I’ve finished before he does and by the time he’s finished I’m ALLLLMOST there), he’ll get it done for me ๐Ÿ™‚  On a rare occasion, he’ll ask that I take care of it myself so he can watch or we’ll make it a joint effort, both of which are a turn on for me, so it’s a nice change of pace to have him watch me every once in a while!

    Post # 48
    13094 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    While I typically finish while we’re having sex, if I don’t DH takes care of it. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 49
    1175 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I’m not always able to get off, no matter what. Idk if it’s state of mind or what. So if I think I can get off, he takes care of it… If I don’t think I can it’s fine, I still enjoy it!

    Post # 50
    336 posts
    Helper bee

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    @GreenEyedMoon: I ditto the vibrator suggestion.  It doesn’t always work for me, but it’s the only way I’ve ever been able to finish, and not from lack of trying on either our our parts.

    Post # 51
    244 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Well, he always wants to make sure I enjoy it as much as he does. So, he makes sure I Still finish no matter what. Lately, he’s been making me “go” during foreplay. Then we have sex. I also go quicker and easier during sex when he does it like that. It’s fun! He always has multiple orgasms! Now I do too! Fun!

    Post # 52
    9479 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    The job is always finished several times by the time we are done.

    Post # 53
    57 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    *Don’t hate me* I’m one of those few women who have orgasms pretty much constantly from sex.  I am extremely sensitive and it is really easy for me to finish whether it’s from sex or anything else.  Now, having said that, I have become a little bit spoiled and am used to having numbers in the double digits (my Fiance takes FOREVERRRRRRRRR), so on the rare occasions that I only have a few, I tend to take care of myself, partially because he is exhausted (did I mentioned he takes foreverrrrrrrrr??) and partially because it only takes a few seconds for me to do and I enjoy doing it and it puts me in that wonderful post-sex daze ๐Ÿ™‚ 

    Post # 55
    5009 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    While my fiance doesn’t feel that it’s essential for either of us to orgasm, he usually “gives me a hand” if he finishes before I do. 

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    @jflindall: I’ll second 
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    @Koolbeans621 in saying that I’m very jealous of your ability to orgasm, although I’m satisfied with one corker of an orgasm.

    Post # 56
    3980 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I guess I am lucky in that the only time I “dont finish” is when I am simply going out of my way to pleasure him and not expecting anything in return. The few times he wasn’t able to finish we just cut our losss, curl up and enjoy everything else that just happened. I am sure if there ever comes a time when I can’t finish we will just do the same.

    Post # 57
    923 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Generally, Fiance likes to make sure I get there at least once before we get into the actual deed (either digitally or orally).  I am typically able to get there with intercourse as well.  In the occasional event where neither of these things happen he generally takes care of it.  He’s very attentive to my needs.

    Post # 58
    735 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2018

    It gets taken care of ๐Ÿ˜€

    Post # 59
    484 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    SO is so attentive he practically tortures himself trying to prevent finishing himself until I do. It’s so great… except on days when it’s just not happening for me. Haha. 

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