Post # 47
If I don’t finish (or if I’ve finished before he does and by the time he’s finished I’m ALLLLMOST there), he’ll get it done for me 🙂 On a rare occasion, he’ll ask that I take care of it myself so he can watch or we’ll make it a joint effort, both of which are a turn on for me, so it’s a nice change of pace to have him watch me every once in a while!
Post # 48
While I typically finish while we’re having sex, if I don’t DH takes care of it. 🙂
Post # 49
I’m not always able to get off, no matter what. Idk if it’s state of mind or what. So if I think I can get off, he takes care of it… If I don’t think I can it’s fine, I still enjoy it!
Post # 50
I ditto the vibrator suggestion. It doesn’t always work for me, but it’s the only way I’ve ever been able to finish, and not from lack of trying on either our our parts.
Post # 51
Well, he always wants to make sure I enjoy it as much as he does. So, he makes sure I Still finish no matter what. Lately, he’s been making me “go” during foreplay. Then we have sex. I also go quicker and easier during sex when he does it like that. It’s fun! He always has multiple orgasms! Now I do too! Fun!
Post # 52
The job is always finished several times by the time we are done.
Post # 53
*Don’t hate me* I’m one of those few women who have orgasms pretty much constantly from sex. I am extremely sensitive and it is really easy for me to finish whether it’s from sex or anything else. Now, having said that, I have become a little bit spoiled and am used to having numbers in the double digits (my Fiance takes FOREVERRRRRRRRR), so on the rare occasions that I only have a few, I tend to take care of myself, partially because he is exhausted (did I mentioned he takes foreverrrrrrrrr??) and partially because it only takes a few seconds for me to do and I enjoy doing it and it puts me in that wonderful post-sex daze 🙂
Post # 54
jflindall I think I can’t speak for everone when I say, I so envy you.
Post # 55
While my fiance doesn’t feel that it’s essential for either of us to orgasm, he usually “gives me a hand” if he finishes before I do.
I’ll second @Koolbeans621
in saying that I’m very jealous of your ability to orgasm, although I’m satisfied with one corker of an orgasm.
Post # 56
I guess I am lucky in that the only time I “dont finish” is when I am simply going out of my way to pleasure him and not expecting anything in return. The few times he wasn’t able to finish we just cut our losss, curl up and enjoy everything else that just happened. I am sure if there ever comes a time when I can’t finish we will just do the same.
Post # 57
Generally, Fiance likes to make sure I get there at least once before we get into the actual deed (either digitally or orally). I am typically able to get there with intercourse as well. In the occasional event where neither of these things happen he generally takes care of it. He’s very attentive to my needs.
Post # 59
SO is so attentive he practically tortures himself trying to prevent finishing himself until I do. It’s so great… except on days when it’s just not happening for me. Haha.