Post # 31
PPs have hit on a lot of topics here. I think my biggest question still surrounds why you felt the need to explain your ex’s feelings to him after his most recent reach-out.
Additionally: you’ve around these parts for a while now. I have a hard time believing you didn’t see something like this coming when you posted.
Post # 32
This post from this OP really doesn’t surprise me.
Post # 33
I think people are saying you aren’t ready for marriage because your OP comes off as saying that you only just realized it isn’t satisfying to “win” a breakup. That’s something most people realize the second they are over the breakup.
I’m friends with two exes from high school and they are both invited to our wedding. They have expressed congratulations to my fiance and I. I don’t keep tabs on any other exes and if one reached out to me now, I would ignore it, not engage in a discussion where I need to explain where their feelings are coming from.
Post # 34
So none of you have ever called up a girlfriend and said, you’ll never guess who just texted me, my ex.
ugh my ex texted me the other day, I know it’s because I’m in a relationship now, wonder what his deal is.
That’s what I thought. We have ALL done that. We have All talked to our girlfriends about this exact type of thing. So hypocritical. So since you have all had chats like that with your friends does that make you immature, or enjoying someones Pain? Or not ready for marriage? I thought not.
I posted about this bc I considered the bees like girlfriends. But it’s pretty clear that you can’t post anything without people digging through your past posts and turning your thread into something that fits their need to tear you apart. I’m guessing this is why so many bees post anonymously for their actual posts.
Post # 35
and yeah I shouldn’t be surprised all anyone wants to do on here is crap on people. Going to delete my account and start fresh.