(Closed) Share the reactions of your ex's when you got engaged

posted 2 months ago in Engagement
  • poll: Were you contacted by and ex once you got engaged?
    Yes, just to say congrats : (6 votes)
    13 %
    No : (39 votes)
    81 %
    Yes, and they got emotional or wanted to discuss the past and it was inappropriate : (3 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 31
    225 posts
    Helper bee

    PPs have hit on a lot of topics here. I think my biggest question still surrounds why you felt the need to explain your ex’s feelings to him after his most recent reach-out.

    Additionally: you’ve around these parts for a while now. I have a hard time believing you didn’t see something like this coming when you posted. 

    Post # 32
    2634 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2018

    This post from this OP really doesn’t surprise me.

    Post # 33
    936 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2019

    I think people are saying you aren’t ready for marriage because your OP comes off as saying that you only just realized it isn’t satisfying to “win” a breakup. That’s something most people realize the second they are over the breakup.


    I’m friends with two exes from high school and they are both invited to our wedding. They have expressed congratulations to my fiance and I. I don’t keep tabs on any other exes and if one reached out to me now, I would ignore it, not engage in a discussion where I need to explain where their feelings are coming from.

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