Post # 16
Mine is Quality Time and his is Words of Affirmation. We both scored high on Physical Touch, as well. We both try to be mindful of meeting each other’s needs, and I think we do a pretty good job. I bought the book a while back and printed off two copies of the quiz for us to each take, it was a fun little bonding exercise.
Post # 17
I agree with PPs, it’s nice to have the same top love language as your partner! We both score highest on physical touch. Then for me, following closely behind, are a tie between acts of service and quality time, followed by another tie between words of affirmation and receiving gifts. My husband’s next highest after physical touch are quality time and words of affirmation. I try to make a real effort to praise him more often than comes naturally to me (I’m kind of the stereotypical New Englander).