Post # 1
I’m blessed/cursed to have VERY detailed, VERY odd dreams nearly every night, and the theme of them lately has been “disaster at the wedding”. In every single one, suddenly the wedding day is here (instead of two months away) and I realize that I still haven’t done a number of Very Important Things.
I had a silly one last night where we were suddenly having a VERY informal wedding on Boston Common along with three other couples who we didn’t know, and all of our guests had to sit on the grass with the squirrels. One of the other couples used the same wedding readings that we had picked, and I got very upset and decided that I had to find new ones. Then I also realized that I hadn’t memorized my vows and didn’t have a copy of them, and panicked.
In the end, somehow I knew that my vows and a giant book of all possible wedding readings to choose from were on my desk at work, halfway across the city. So I wound up making our guests wait while I dashed through Boston in my wedding dress to get them. And then woke up in a general state of wedding freak-out.
I can’t be alone in this – please post your crazy wedding dreams!
Post # 3
one night i dreamed that it was my wedding day.. and everyone was busy lol and i put on my dress and everything .. the photographer was nowhere to be found and never showed up. .and after I put on my dress.. i realized that I never went to my hair and makeup appt.. and started trying to do it myself! lol
Post # 4
I had wedding nightmares a lot too. I was losing weight for the wedding, and I kept dreaming that it was my wedding day and my dress was huuuge on me (like, wouldn’t even stay on). I also dreamed that there wasn’t enough food for everyone, or half the vendors didn’t show up, or the whole thing ended up going so late that everyone had to leave the venue… You’re definitely not alone in this!
Post # 5
I had one last night! I think you all are infiltrating my head a little too much if this old married lady is having wedding anxiety dreams, lol!!!
I had a dream that it was my wedding day, and our theme was sort of rustic, and I think we were supposed to have pink accents and flowers. Our florist (who I think was Peewee Herman…) showed up with all kinds of decor and flowers, but all in the wrong colour and pretty much exactly what I would not like to see at my rustic wedding. There was a ring bearers pillow that was red satin with these kind of black tulle flower-esque things sewn on all over it, and then those were a few other places too. Everything was black and red, but I wanted pretty, springy, rustic, burlap stuff. I was beside myself but had to walk down the aisle now so I didn’t have time to deal with it. So weird!!!
Post # 6
I had my first wedding nightmare two nights ago. I dreamt that it was suddenly my wedding day and I didn’t have any of my DIYs done. I furiously set to work on them. After working for only a short time I looked at the clock to realize that it was 10 minutes until the ceremony time. I looked down at myself to discover that I wasn’t wearing my dress and didn’t have my hair or makeup done. Our ring bearer didn’t have his suit and none of the DIYs were finished. I bolted to the ceremony only to see the last few people trickle out, as I realized that I’d missed the whole thing. Fiance was so angry with me that the walked out on me.
The dream left such a horrible residual feeling afterward in addition to waking me up at 6am on my day off.