(Closed) Sharing on social media

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What would you do?

    Sack the bridesmaid

    Get over it and move on?

  • Post # 31
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    558 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2017

    There is no way that this wasn’t intentional and that she didn’t know what a big no no this was. Is boot her from the bridal party and probably also tell her she’s not welcome at the wedding, to be honest.

    $100 says she’s seen your messages and is ignoring you because ‘HOW DARE YOU CENSOR ME AND TELL ME WHAT I CAN POST ON MY PAGE!’. I’m livid on your behalf.

    Post # 32
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    859 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    I’m glad she took the pictures down, but you had every right to freak out. Don’t let her or anyone else think you were overreacting. I would have been inconsolable!

    Post # 33
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    1117 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    Wow!! That is a really crappy mistake at best and soooo mean of her if it was done intentionally to ruin your surprise, at worst.

    I’m glad she took the photos down, but dude. I’d be upset just like you are, too! I’m impressed with how you’re looking at the positives, though. You’ll be a beautiful bride!

    Post # 34
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    3664 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2017 - City, State

    I would keep her as a bridesmaid, but I wouldn’t share a single, solitary detail with her at all from this point forward. 100% information blackout for her.

    Post # 35
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    50 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2017

    Okay, while that was really uncool and thoughtless of her, I don’t think it was devious or done with ill intent. I was just really stupid and careless but not malicious. Try to focus on that even though people have seen the dress, not everyone has and not the most important person. And they may have seen you in the dress but they have not seen you in the dress with the alterations done and your hair done and makeup ect. You will have a completely different look when you walk down the aisle! 

    Post # 37
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    857 posts
    Busy bee

    Awww, bee, I am so sorry!!!! You friend really stole a special moment from you 🙁  I am sure you look stunning in the pictures, and that it’s a gorgeous dress, but if you feel happier checking out other dresses, do it!  I hope you feel amazing on the day of your wedding.  You’re very intuitive to try to let go of the pain and focus on the important part- the part where you’re marrying the love of your life!

    Post # 38
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    1885 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    I’m so sorry, that sucks! I was super protective about pictures of my dress and didn’t let anyone see until the wedding. That being said, the pictures from the bridal salon are SOOOO different from the pictures you will get on your wedding day. You will still get an amazing WOW factor any many, much better pictures to share from your wedding. Lots of hugs to you!

    Post # 39
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    55 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2017

    Your friend is an idiot. I don’t understand how she can ignore your phone call for hours. I’m enraged for you. 

    Post # 40
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    82 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    Wow I would be screaming! That is beyond appropiate. What was going through her mind?? Both my Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid or Best Man were sent pics of my dress via phone and both told me they had deleted it straight after viewing to even avoid their SO seeing the dress (even though 1 is best man). What your friend has done is extremely rude and stupid… 

    I guess everyone has a different view but I personally would never show anyone pics of a friends dress before her wedding. 

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