Sharing wedding day

posted 3 years ago in Engagement
Post # 2
1750 posts
Buzzing bee


gabby1985 :  Yes, that’s really rude of your mom. If I were you, I’d elope and not tell anyone beforehand and just come back to let them know. You have every right to want your wedding day to be special and for you and your husband only.

Post # 3
52 posts
Worker bee

I would be pissed, but the upside is that the next date you pick she can’t do the same thing again because they are already married. Did they finally say yes because you said nevermind to that date? Maybe he wasn’t going to  go through with it until you declined. However, having a crazy mother myself, my sister and I discuss everything with each other to make sure of the plans and such. Your brother should have talked to you (or you should have talked to him) I’m sure he would have understood and declined the duo wedding if you expressed that you were not down.

Post # 4
484 posts
Helper bee

I’m trying to put myself in your shoes, and I can definitely see where you’re coming from.  But, personally, I wouldn’t really be mad since I actually think it would have been fun to get married at the same time my sister did.  I wouldn’t think of it as sharing MY day, but as doubling the fun. 

But you have a right to feel what you feel! 

Is there another day when your dad will be in town that you can plan for?

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