(Closed) Shaving down there – YOU and HIM

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: What do you both USUALLY shave down there?
    Both totally unshaved (natural look) : (14 votes)
    5 %
    Both totally shaved : (38 votes)
    14 %
    Both do some trimming, tidying up, nothing major : (55 votes)
    21 %
    Me: Totally shaved Him: Full Bush : (27 votes)
    10 %
    Me: Landing Strip Him: Full Bush : (12 votes)
    5 %
    Me: Other style Him: Full Bush : (14 votes)
    5 %
    Me: Full Bush Him: Some trimming : (5 votes)
    2 %
    Me: Totally shaved Him: Some trimming : (73 votes)
    28 %
    Me: Landing Strip Him: Some trimming : (9 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    1105 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I shave every 3 days… FH hardly ever does anything. I have to nag and nag for him to even trim it (I hate going down there and getting pubes in my mouth, so gross).


    He refuses to shave himself… I have noooo idea why. He never provided a good reason either! It’s one of those things I’ve learned to live with though (you pick your battles). 

    Post # 4
    2638 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2006

    I’m bare, he’s tidy.

    Post # 5
    3078 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

    I vary so I put other lol. I shave then grow it a bitthen landing strip then grow then shave all then repeat 😛

    Post # 6
    1481 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2015

    We both shave everything. Most of the time he’s pretty good at keeping it up but currently it’s a jungle down there! Lol

    Post # 7
    2269 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I clean shave once a week or so and I give him a trim when his gets too bushy.

    Post # 8
    1714 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2016

    Cannot STAND having hair down there on me. Drives me nuts. Absolutely hate it. Have been getting rid of it since I was 16 and am much happier for that! 

    He does trim there though, which is nice. Wouldn’t bother me if he didn’t though lol.

    Post # 9
    3765 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I can’t shave because my skin is super sensitive 🙁 I wax a lot in the summer but don’t bother in the other months lol… Fiance does absolutely nothing. It’s hard enough for me get him to shave his face, so I’m not even going to attempt “down there.” 😉

    Post # 10
    1251 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2009

    I shave every 4-5 days or so, and he doesn’t do anything (occasionally he will trim), which is a-okay with me. He’s actually asked me to ‘grow mine out’ before, and I tried it for about a week and a half and then freaked out and shaved again, lol.

    Post # 11
    279 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I wax during the summer and borrow DH’s beard trimmer after swimsuit/shorts season is over. I never shave because of sensitive skin/fast regrowth rate.

    He just trims. The few times I’ve gotten him to shave he’s complained about things sticking to other things.

    Post # 12
    823 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I shave every single day, and get rid of everything down there. Can’t stand to even have stubble. He trims and keeps it nice and tidy. 

    Post # 13
    155 posts
    Blushing bee

    I wax year round (California living….). He usually totally shaves down there, but sometimes he’ll let it grow a bit.

    Post # 14
    1514 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I shave everything.  I really hate body hair on myself, so I’m kind of obsessive about it.  My fiance usually trims, but it doesn’t bother me if he doesn’t.

    Post # 15
    2522 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Does anyone else feel weird about shaving their areas?

    I primarily leave things alone and my Fiance does nothing to his.  Ocassionally, I’ll shave or trim the stuff but it feels like I chafe more down there or something when I shave.  Also, I feel weird about the idea of having nothing there, you know? 

    Post # 16
    2654 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I do a little bit of everything I guess. I’ll wax down there every few months or so but let it grow to almost full bush in between. However, I will do some trimming to keep it neat but not to a full landing strip (what’s the point of that btw?). He likes it all different ways, and I’m happy to oblige. 


    ETA: He does nothing aside from wash, lol.

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