(Closed) She couldn't tell me herself that she isn't coming?… *Mini Vent*

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 4
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102 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Oh my. I’d initiate a conversation with her myself. I don’t mean any offense, but when you said that she’s had a few previous engagements, it struck me as very flaky (although it may have been out of her control that they ended). But then you also said that she bails on plans with you and your sister, too. So yeah, just try being direct with her about it, and don’t expect much out of her.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Why don’t you wait until RSVP’s are due back in order to find out if she is coming or not? Maybe right now, this minute, it would be because of work. Maybe iot will be because of something else later, but unfortunately if she can’t or doesn’t want to come, she doesn’t have to. I can see why you would be upset about her not telling you herself, but even if she RSVPs no, and you call her to find out why you aren’t going to be satisfied because you want her there.

I don’t know why you added about her borrowing money and what not if not to confirm that she tends to bail on commitments she has made to others. If that is the case you shouldn’t be too suprirsed that she isn’t coming.

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