(Closed) She doesn't like the colour

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3578 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

About the dress: You’re the bride, the Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses are your choice. She should wear the dress and shut up about it.

About the hairdresser: If you are requiring your girls to have their hair professionally done, in my opinion, you should pay for it. I paid for my girls’ pro hair & makeup.

Post # 4
1338 posts
Bumble bee

I’d give her the option to do her own hair. She should accept the color. She should suck it up!

Post # 5
3372 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@abbyful:  +1


Color of the dresses is your choice. Period. Who cares if she hates the color or loves it? Its your wedding.

I’m paying for my girls to get their hair done and I think if you’re requiring them to go to a certain hairstylist you should pay for it.

Post # 6
121 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@abbyful:  +1


I’m going to come off as a bitch here but I told my BM’s that if they dont like my choice they call tell me but at the end of the day its MY CHOICE and that I will make sure everyone looks good that day. While I’m not making my girls have their hair a certain way I am paying for them to get their hair done. If you want their hair a certain way you should pay for it.

Post # 7
9894 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

She should shut up about the dress since you’re the bride, but I do find it rude to tell people they have to get their hair professionally done, but then making them pay for it.  I had all my girls get their hair done, and I paid the full cost.

Post # 9
2883 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@HsGarcia:  getting it dyed to make it…lighter? Is that a thing?

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