(Closed) She ignored my wishes and brought the baby… surprise it cried during my vows

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
5075 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

she didn’t take her crying baby out of the room??  are you serious?

Post # 4
835 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@GroovyHippieChick:  Exactly

I would have first off, not brought my child.

Secondly, if in case I was drinking and did bring my baby after I told you I wouldn’t, I would have left the room as quietly as I could.

That’s insane! I would be pissed too!

Post # 5
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

That girl is an absolute bitch. That is frenemy territory.  

Post # 6
5296 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

at first I was going to be like come on OP, the past is the past…………..but wow. It seems like this woman wanted to cause a scene. I mean, to not leave and then write that in your guest book? And that it was so bad your videographer can’t separate the two?

I’d be pissed too…….and I don’t know what I would do about it : I’m all for taking the high road, but I think there would be several bitchy comments from me to her in the next few run-ins if I were you.

Post # 7
1714 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

Wow wow wow. Unbelievable! I don’t blame you for being pissed, I would be livid. 

Post # 8
6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

UGH I have no words!!!

I am so sorry!!!!!!

Try and focus on the positive aspects of your day and hopefully your voiced over vows in the video allow you to put the memory of the crying baby to the back of your mind!!!!

And her comment in the guestbook is beyond my comprehension!!! WTF!!!! 

I would be so pissed and I am actually pissed for you right now!!!!!!! Once again… UGH!!!!!

Post # 9
9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Wow, that’s bad!!!

Post # 10
2009 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh my god.

Selfish raging bitch.

Im so sorry!!

Post # 11
1695 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I had kids at my wedding and it was fine.

BUT…I WOULD BE SO PISSED if i were you.  Seriously, I’m angry for your right now.  I would definitely say something to her. 

Post # 13
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

what a B!!!! So sorry she had no regard for your wishes. 

Post # 14
8042 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@kimberleedawn:  Wow. I would seriously send her thank you card saying something like “Thank you for not listening to my wishes and bringing your baby. It ruined our vows. I offered childcare.”

I am serious. I so would.

This is ridiculous!!!!

Post # 15
509 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2002

Wow.  I think I am now officially 100% for people who want a childfree wedding.  I have my own child but would never bring him if the couple did not want children. That is absolute terrible and they should be ashamed of themselves.  I am so, so sorry. 

Post # 16
1849 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I disagree. You could still kick her. 

I hope she feels like an absolutely horrendous moron. 

EDIT: pleeeaaase do throughthebarricades‘s idea. She deserves it. 

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