(Closed) She needs a dam clue

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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3693 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

He needs to demand a paternity test!  No use busting his butt for a kid who’s not his.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

It sounds like she needs a clue, but so does he! Why is he with her? And I really wouldn’t blame her for getting pregnant – it takes two to tango (that’s the feminist in me coming out). He will be with her until he realizes he wants a better life for himself.

Post # 5
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838 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I know you love your brother,but unfortunatley this is his mistake to make. all you can do is be there for him and support him,no matter what his decision may be.

If you do want to say something though,it might help him if you let him know that just because a family is together doesnt neccessarily make it a happy one,or a good one for the children. The best day of my life was when my parents seperated because it meant that as a young child, I didnt have to listen to their arguments and trying to poisen me against each other. Lots of famliiles function better when the parents are seperate,rather than forcing themselves to be together “for the kids”

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Child Support doesn’t always go for the child. At least right now he can buy food for the baby. But really she needs a job. I hope he gets a test. 

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@sexxysheddy: I think that generalization is going to piss off divorced people who do have custody of their kids…of course if someone else is the main caretaker for their child, the other person should be paying child support. It’s a shame if she’s not using that money properly, but yeah having his kid DOES equal money in her pocket, because if it is his child it’s only right he chip in for keeping his kis clothed and fed and in good health. Seems your brother knows that and is doing his part, but yeah if he suspects the kid may not be his he should definitely get the test done.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@sexxysheddy: Well that sucks =/  maybe you guys should start saving any inappropriate facebook posts, like the one you mentioned, or texts or anything like that he could use in court.

Post # 13
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Newbee

@strawbabies: Maybe I’m missing something, but what would make you think the child is not his? Not trying to start an argument, promise, but I always find it so ridiculous that as soon as things get rough in a relationship people are so quick to jump to this conclusion and paint the woman as a “slut”.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

WOWOW.. she has nerve!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@sexxysheddy: He can leave, set up child support in the court and visitation, and when she fails to follow call the cops and hold her in contempt. He doesn’t need that leech. He can get a DNA test from the pharmacy

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