(Closed) She told him NOT to marry me? WTF!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: How should I handle this situation?
    Don't do anything - just let it go. : (39 votes)
    11 %
    Talk to your BFF Lena, but not Fay : (229 votes)
    66 %
    Ask your BFF Lena to talk to Fay for you : (12 votes)
    3 %
    Confront Fay directly : (66 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1963 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I would tell Lena what happened. But I would see no reason to ever involve yourself with Faye again!

    Post # 4
    Member
    4194 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

    I would tell Lena, just so she knows her friend’s behavior, but I wouldn’t confront Fay- she’s not worth your time.

    Post # 5
    Member
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Wow, I can’t believe she went from fishing for wedding details to hitting on your FI!!! That takes some nerve! I think I would mention it to your friend, if for no other reason than making sure she doesn’t keep bringing this chick around you guys. Talk about awkward…:(

    Post # 6
    Member
    4433 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I’m sorry but i’m the 1 person who voted to confront her….i’d call the B up and rip her a new one 🙂

    Post # 7
    Member
    4275 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I would tell Lena about it (just so that she is aware). That isn’t someone I would want to hang out with anymore, so I would expect Lena to understand why I would want nothing to do with her friend and why I would probably make excuses to not hang out if she were involved.

    Post # 8
    Member
    1403 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    That is ridiculous.  I would definitely tell Lena about what Fay did, then forget about Fay.  She’s not worth your time.

    Post # 9
    Member
    4466 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    Wow that is mind blowing. Fay must be dealing with some personal issues. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    1513 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    i would tell your friend, not so she can lay the smack down – some people are terrible and no amount of confronting them will change that – but so she knows what type of person she is dealing with and so she never invites fay to come out with you or be in your general vacinty again.

     

    Post # 11
    Member
    5080 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Does Faye have a wedding business you can review online?  Her potential customers might be very interested in her actions.  As a bride I’d never hire someone who might go after my FI.

    Just sayin’   Wink

    Post # 12
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    230 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011 - Spring Grove Park & St. George Banquet Center

    @rebwana:  Ditto. Lena may appreciate knowing what her friend did, but Fay is so not worth your stress or time despite that what she did was wildly inappropriate and inexcusable. 

    Post # 13
    Member
    224 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    So people really have no boundaries!!! I agree, what a bitch! I would tell your friend about so that she knows not to bring Faye back around you but I wouldn’t waste by time confronting Faye. As a grown woman she should know better so nothing you say will change her ways.

    Post # 14
    Member
    3371 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    What a crazy bitch!  She’s out of the picture now, so let her stay gone.  Don’t waste any more energy on her.  Who know what kind of drama queen she might be?  You’ve got a strong relationship with your FI and this lady is just one of the things life is going to throw at you guys over the years… chalk her up to a passing idiot. 

    I’d tell my close friend about it though.  She might not want to associate with her knowing how shady she acted.

    Post # 15
    Member
    230 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011 - Spring Grove Park & St. George Banquet Center

    @GroovyHippieChick:  Hahaha! “Fay was so nice and genuinely interested in ALL the details of our wedding. I had so much fun discussing everything with her… until she told my FI to ditch me and hook up with her instead.”

    Post # 16
    Member
    218 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Considering you were “talking shop” with her, I think this behavior extends to being professionally unethical.  I might consider posting a review about her either on yelp or on a wedding website.  Be fair and accurate, but honestly discuss her distaste for couples who are in your position. I know that seems extreme, since she is also a friend of a friend, but honestly, if that’s the way she feels about couples in your position, I think other couples have a right to know.

     

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