(Closed) She told him NOT to marry me? WTF!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: How should I handle this situation?
    Don't do anything - just let it go. : (39 votes)
    11 %
    Talk to your BFF Lena, but not Fay : (229 votes)
    66 %
    Ask your BFF Lena to talk to Fay for you : (12 votes)
    3 %
    Confront Fay directly : (66 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 18
    Member
    6512 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @GroovyHippieChick:  LOL, that was exactly what I was thinking!  That is BEYOND inappropriate for someone who purports to be a “professional” in the wedding business. 

    Post # 19
    Member
    3667 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    My jaw actually dropped open reading this. WTF!!!

    I would let Lena know just so that she knows the type of person Fay is, but I wouldn’t have her confront Fay for you. It’s not worth it to put her in the middle and possibly risk your friendship over this crazy bitch.

    Post # 20
    Member
    705 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 1993

    What an interesting business plan – enter the bridal industry, then try to pick off other women’s grooms because clearly they’re already wedding-minded but just need to realize that it’s HER they want instead of their fiancees.  GENIUS.

    Post # 21
    Member
    270 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    This is just like that god awful movie, The Wedding Planner!!  Which I still can’t believe is an actual movie…

    Post # 22
    Member
    3697 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Wow, just…. wow. 

    I voted option #2.  Your BFF should know how skeevy her ‘friend’ is.  I wouldn’t want to hang out with someone I couldn’t trust for 2 minutes with my man without her trying to break us up. 

    As for reviewing her online.  Give it some time to simmer down, but I would.  I’d want to know if my wedding planner had eyes on every committment-minded guy she met.  I mean, geez, what a great job to meet guys!  They’re ok with the idea of marraige, but maybe not quite ready to marry HER… so I’LL steal him. 

    Post # 23
    Member
    5072 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @TheFutureMrsCarness:  You wouldn’t be stirring up drama.  She did by telling your Fiance not to marry you and then giving him her number.

    Who says she wouldn’t try it with someone else?  

    Definitely something to ponder.   Smile  It’s not anything you have to decide on right now.  That’s the beauty of the internet – it will still be there after you deliberate.  

    Revenge is a dish best served cold

    Post # 24
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    1766 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Aside from Fay being scum of the earth in general, does anyone agree that she is also an extraordinarily dumb business woman? She almost had a sale secured, but she went and messed it up within a few minutes?  Kudos!  That’s an achievement in itself.

    I’d talk to Lena. If Lena is your BFF and you’ve never met this Fay before, maybe she’s a new friend of Lena’s?  Lena should be warned.  I don’t know if I would do the review on her website.  That might just cause more drama. You don’t need Fay accusing you of libel.  Maybe something more anonymous on Yelp?

    Post # 25
    Member
    6741 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    WOW.  What a Queen B. 

    Here’s what I would do.  I would have a serious discussion with my friend about what a bee eye tee see aytch her friend is and how if she ever has the nerve to bring her around me again, she will get her face rearranged (ok, I’m not aggressive, but this would make my blood boil).

    Then I would sit down and write an email to her.  And never send it.  Just writing out the email will get your vent and frustrations out, almost as if you had said it yourself to her.  But, you won’t get the added frustration of a response. 

    And seriously, what is your friend thinking for not putting her friend in her place on your behalf?????

    I would be PISSED!!!!

    Post # 26
    Member
    2008 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    What a fucking psycho.

    And I would find out if she as awebsite or yelp profile.  Review that shit.  Service was awesomfroth a groom stealing crazy person!!!

    Post # 27
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    3768 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

    I have to respectfully disagree with the ladies telling you to review this woman online.. you met up with her in a non-professional setting and for social reasons… to put something about her as a personal attack is just kind of petty and I think you would come off looking as an unreliable/questionable source.

    HOWEVER as a person/human being she was totally gross and out of line, and you need to tell your mutual friend about what she tried to do.  And never see her again, of course.

    Post # 30
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    11746 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    So messed up! Not good for her business – I’d write a bad review online!  I would have blown up at her on the spot! God, some women are just crazy!

    Post # 31
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    10035 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @BellaDee:  I’m with you and voted the same.  I certainly would directly confront her and rip her a new one.  That’s one of the most F’d-up things I’ve ever heard in my life, on so many levels.  What a total skank.

    Mouth hanging open. 

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