(Closed) She wants to wear WHAT?! (vent)

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 6
2287 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: Central Park

LOL Just buy the dress you want and tell her to wear it. 🙂 She can’t complain toooo much if she didn’t have to pay for it.

Post # 7
1963 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Does she understand that usually as a Bridesmaid or Best Man the BRIDE  chooses your attire? Not really sure why she would be back to the drawing board….

Post # 8
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

Has she been in someone else’s BP?  What does she normally wear to those kinds of functions?  Are you sure she wasn’t joking (you know her personality better than anyone on here)?  Did your mom have any feedback to her grand ideas?

Post # 9
9917 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013


Post # 12
192 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@michiru4ever:  +1

I think that might be the only way to solve this… She cant say no if she does then you can ask her to step down and ask someone else who sees the same vision that you have for your wedding

Post # 14
778 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yikes!  I would set a date with her to go dress shopping at a bridal shop, and give her free reign to wear whatever shoes she wants.  Maybe if she can wear something that she picks out on her own, she won’t show up looking like two-dollar hooker.

Post # 15
2270 posts
Buzzing bee

You’re all way too nice. I would be ticked and bluntly tell her, “I cannot believe you think you’re wearing the peacock costume to my wedding. That is not happening. It’s a wedding, not a single’s dance. You need to wear something appropriate or you’re not coming at all.”

Post # 16
1659 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

LOL what??

Find her a peacock fascinator and then you guys can go shopping for a dress that’s her style but that you’re still okay with. 

One of my friends is dating this girl that’s a social worker with her MSW…she fosters kittens and is an amazing human being, but she just always dresses like a biker groupie.  To a wedding last year she wore a neon orange bandage dress with 6″ courtney stodden heels, but for her that was classy so it made sense.  So maybe for your sister, if she can dress appropriately (not a costume) but still be comfortable in her own style, you guys can come to a compromise.


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