(Closed) She’s a Bridesmaid for another wedding on the SAME DAY!

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: My bridesmaid is in another wedding party on the same day, at different times. What should I do?
    Two weddings in one day? Impossible! Ask her to step down. : (35 votes)
    41 %
    Sounds like she has a plan. Keep her in the bridal party. : (51 votes)
    59 %
  • Post # 47
    Member
    6392 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I would be worried about photos. Yes, I’m sure she can make your ceremony, but if you want to do photos beforehand, she’s probably going to miss out :P.

    Post # 48
    Member
    255 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I agree with the poster who said that she was really surprised by this thread.  You choose this person to be in your wedding party because they are important to you, I wouldn’t kick them out just because they aren’t going to be as available to you the week before.  I have flown across the country to be a maid of honor, and just because I wasn’t able to do the DIY stuff the week before did not make me any less a part of the wedding.

    Be realistic with her in setting a timeline of how it will work, and make sure she talks to the other bride about it as well.  Ask her what can be done with her makeup to make sure it works with both weddings, and just accept that the henna will be on her hands during your wedding.  What is important is that she is sharing your day with you, and I’m sure she will do her part to help you out with things over the next year!

    Post # 49
    Member
    875 posts
    Busy bee

    With current photography, I wouldn’t worry too much about photos.  Yes, you’ll probably take some photos without her, but it will be easy to include her in others.  And with photoshop options, you can probably have her added fairly easy if you need to!

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