(Closed) she’s driving me crazy!!!!!!!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1982 posts
Buzzing bee

I would tell her that after some family issues, you and your Fiance have decided to keep your planning a secret, and that you can’t wait for her to be surprised on the day of, and then stick to it!

Six months is going to fly by, and you have more time to enjoy being engaged. Don’t let her ruin your fun! 🙂

Post # 4
257 posts
Helper bee

Just don’t talk to her about wedding stuff. Or is she asks you about your wedding planning just say “oh, we haven’t decided on that yet” and just turn around or something. After a while, whe’ll get the clue that you don’t want to talk to her about it.

Post # 5
1566 posts
Bumble bee

You’re not going to change her personality, but there is one easy solution: don’t share all the details with her! Keep the wedding talk general, and don’t give her the opportunity to put your ideas down. Unfortunately some brides do this to feel better about their own weddings. If she keeps bugging your for details, I like @laboroflove’s solution.

Also, if she insists on showing off how great her wedding will be, I would politely remind her how lucky she is to have her parents pay. Honestly, I think some brides who don’t pay for the wedding themselves have this idea that THEIR parents are paying because they love their daughter and dream of giving her a perfect day. But in reality, it’s just luck – they happen to be lucky and have wealthier parents. I don’t think it would be rude to remind her of that so she stops showing off! 

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