Post # 1
Ugh my fiance’s grandmother she’s super nice but she’s control freak! Pisses me off, she took my DIY invitations and got them printed and put them together! WTF I was so mad to come home to see them already done and printed! She did a horrible job at printing them- it’s like a paragraph of block front! I don’t want to be rude since she is helping by paying her side of the family but seriously!!!! Then she picked out my table cloths. I feel like I am getting pushed aside. What should I do?
Post # 3
Tell her that you appreciate her enthusiasm but would like to make the wedding decisions yourself. To keep the peace, add that you are really excited about the wedding but still really want her to help. Then give her minimal “busy” tasks she can do during the day….. to make her feel useful and busy.
Post # 4
Ask your Fiance to talk to her. Also, when she does something like that say “I really appreciate that you are trying to help me, but I’ve really been looking forward to _____ myself. However, I would LOVE your opinion on _____”.