Post # 1
Weird question but here goes: So, my friend told me that she just started seeing this guy and one day, while dressing up, he told her “Oh, your bra and panties don’t match?” and she was a bit confused. As in, well, she used to match when they started *cough cough* but she felt okay enough with him to mix it up. I almost started convulsing with laughter. What are the odds that I would match mine? I think I did it when I first started dating my guy but that was over 4 years ago. I relaxed MAJORLY since then! So spill it, do you or don’t you?
Ps. On the same vein, how often do you wash your bra? I heard some ladies wash after every use. Confession, I don’t.
Post # 3
I rarely do. I mean if it is a “special” kind of day/night then sure (but then its usually black with black… not too creative), but I don’t really buy mine in sets so they’d be kind of hard to match.
Re: washing– kind of depends. Honestly I work from home so a lot of days I’ll only wear a bra for like 2 hours when I run out to do something and then off it comes when I get home (I don’t like wearing them at home). So it could go a couple wears if I’m only wearing it a few hours at a time. If I wear it for a full day during which I was at all hot/sweaty then I definitely wash it.
Post # 4
Mine dont!! And yes, some of my girlfriends are perplexed by this. Im like, I dont have time for all that seriously. Fiance commented on it early in our relationshp and I just gave him the side eye. When he starts matching his boxers to his undershirts then maybe we can talk. I grab whatever I see first.
Post # 5
HEHE I used to when we first got together…. but not anymore. I guy friend of ours was disturbed to find out not only do most girls stop doing that … they don’t match their bra/panties to their outerwear as well?? WTH who has time for that!!
Post # 6
I don’t care if my bra matches but I like my panties to match my shirt or at least be a complimentary color of my outfit. I don’t know why though…
Post # 7
Voted yes I do by mistake. But I do when I can. Though i’m not at all today… lol
Post # 8
- Wedding: May 2010 - Philippe Park
Bahahaha, I used to match my bra and underwear to my actual clothes when I was in high school. I don’t know why, I guess I just wanted it all to “go”. Weird.
Now, not so much. I’d say I match my bra and underwear about 50% of the time, but if they don’t match I really don’t care.
My only “underwear qiurk” now is making sure that my bra and underwear aren’t flesh-toned on the nights I know (or suspect) that Mr. R and I are going to.. uhm… bow-chicka-bow-wow, because flesh-toned bras and panties are not sexy.
Post # 9
Hells no they don’t match. lol. I barely have time to pee in the morning much less match my underwear. BUT I did back when we first started dating hahaha.
Post # 10
I only have 2 bras and one is black and one is white. I had to buy them while I was pregnant and growing and then got a bunch from my sister but I shrank back down below what she had and above what I was before so those are the only 2 I have. I’s hard to aways match when you only have 2 colors.
Post # 11
I think the majority of both are black or nude so maybe I match but not on purpose
Post # 12
Pretty much never, as the ratio of bra:underwear is vastly in favour of the underwear department.
I do try and match them if I am going out/doing professional or important things (ie: court or special event).
when I am at home or just hanging out I just put on whatever I want generally.
Post # 13
I never match, unless that’s the only thing I’m wearing for the occasion. I wear hanky panky thongs every day, mostly black and I’m really picky about my bras because they can’t have any padding, but they also has to be just thick enough to not see any definition through and has to be nude so I can wear a button down shirt and not show off my bra to everyone.
I also don’t wash bras after every use as long as they don’t need it because I change out of them once I get home into my ‘casual’ bras. So I’m not wearing it all day, just to work.
Post # 14
Bras-5 (3 that I like to wear, 2 for emergencies only)
Panties-Enough so I don’t have to do laundry for 3 weeks.
Odds of matching them: slim to none
Wears per wash: (and I am only telling you since this is semi anonymous) prolly about 5
Post # 15
never, except on our honeymoon when i had a couple cute lingerie sets i bought specifically for then. and those aren’t everyday underwear/not comfortable enough to wear on an everyday basis.
i remember one time at victoria’s secret, the sales lady acted all shocked and appalled that i bought a pair of underware in purple when the bra i was buying with the same pattern was green. i was like 16 at the time and shopping with my mom–i was so weirded out that it’d even be a thing! like umm i’m 16 and with my mom right now–clearly this isn’t for someone else to see and i iike the different colors, what’s the big deal?