- 6 years ago
Tonight i was told something in confidence and i am honestly shocked. I am a very good secret keeper and pride myself in doing so but this just blew me away, it was something very sensitive in nature. (i normally would not tell a soul but i was so surprised i feel like i have to talk to someone about it, i made a new account to keep her privacy) A close family member of Fiance told me that her and her Darling Husband have never… never, had sex. They have been together for 10 years and married for 6. I was so surprised, one because of the obvious information that had just been tossed at me, and two that she would feel comfortable enough to share this information with me which i am ever so greatful. I know it is a medical condition that makes it too painful for them to have sex, and i know its not terribly uncommon but its rarely talked about. I just never in a million years would have guessed that they had never had sex. They have even conceived a few times -via syringe- , sadly all ending in miscarriage. The reason i would even bother to bring it up is after struggling with this for years and thinking her and her husband would never be able to have sex, she’s been going to a physiotherapist and she is getting treatments to help stretch the muscles ‘down there’ and should be able to have sex shortly. for the FIRST time, she was so emotional and over joyed that this would be a possibility after so much failed treatment to help cure her. I felt the need to share her story with other Bee’s incase someone else out there was suffering in silence, I could just feel the weight fall off her as she told me, i apparently was the first person she has told. I was so saddened for her and over joyed at the same time. Has anyone else ever had this condition and got over it? I would love to tell her some positive stories of people who got better. Thanks for being my listening ear bee’s i really appreciate it!