Post # 1
im having a dilemma on what shoes to wear for my wedding.
my fiance and i are the same height so i dont want heels that will make me tower over him. but then again, do i just wear ballet flats (because i can) so that im comfortable all day?
the shoes im tossing up between is the Vera Wang lavender ballet flats
or the kate spade evie shoes in ivory
i love the look of the KS but i wouldnt really wear them again, whereas the VW Lavender i could wear again and again. I just feel a little silly wearing flats, i know i shouldnt but…HELP!
opinions and experiences are very welcomed!
Post # 3
They are both gorgeous shoes so I’d go with the ones that make you the most comfortable. The heel on the Kate Spades are pretty short so you won’t be towering over your Fiance… I guess it just depends which ones will make you feel best. I voted for the Kate Spades just because I am a fan of heels and the seem ‘fancier’ to me for some reason. But they are both super nice, so I don’t think either would be a bad choice.
Post # 4
I think both shoes are nice, but I voted for the Kate Spade heels. They look more bridal to me. They are also very pretty.
Post # 5
I hate heels myself but I will be wearing a short one on the day. We are the same height too but I won’t be towering over him. I bought flats to wear because I won’t make it all night in the heels. So I picked Kate too. Can you get the other ones for a quick change later?
Post # 6
Thanks for the replies!
so far KS winning by one vote!
@Bichon Frise: i agree, they do look more bridal, and i guess the more i think about them, the more they are probably the better option.
@Katielee: nice idea, i guess ill just find some flats to change in to if i need!
thanks again everyone!
Post # 7
I prefer the look of the Vera Wang ones (the Kate Spade ones are a little plain for me), but I personally would be uncomfortable in flats; I don’t walk as well in flats as in heels for some reason. I’ve got some nice JCs, which are in a glittery silvery fabric, and only have a small (2.5 inch) heel; they’re super-comfy and I’ll wear them again. So maybe keep looking and try to find something in a similar shape/style to the Kate Spades, but in different fabric/with more detail on?..
Post # 8
I’m all for wearability. Vera Wang shoes FTW
Post # 9
Does anyone know where I can find those Vera Wang flats in ivory? I can not find them anywhere!
Post # 10
Those flats are really cute! I agree that the KS shoes are kind of plain. Try them on before you buy though–I had a pair of VW Lavendar shoes that were similar and they killed my feet. The elastic or whatever around the top made them dig into my heels really badly.