(Closed) Short 1 bridesmaid and I don't get along with my sisters

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
6355 posts
Bee Keeper

you don’t need to have an equal number of bridesmaids and groomsmen… go with the people you have now 🙂

Post # 4
Hostess
2999 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I agree with joya.  I never understood the matching number of people in the wedding party.  I mean I understand it looks nice in pictures and everyone will be coupled up to walk down the aisle BUT….your friends are your friends.  AND in your case, it sounds like your friends are your family, they should have the honor of being in your wedding.  You don’t want someone new and who you barely know in you wedding just to make the numbers match.   You definitely don’t want to look back on your pictures and say “who the hell is that person in my wedding”.  Just have 2 guys walk down 1 girl and your problem is solved!  As for your sisters, I agree, you can’t pick just one (not that you would want to) and you aren’t close with them…there are no rules saying you must have family in the wedding!

Post # 5
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369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@joszust:  I am not trying to make this a joke nor be mean…but I think you should tell your friend that doesn’t want to be a bm that you would really like her in the wedding as a bm and if your wedding is in 2 years, if she is still not engaged by then, then it probably won’t be happening. She shouldn’t be superstitious like that. I have NEVER heard of that before.

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