(Closed) Short Term Celibacy Before Your Wedding Day

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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816 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@TaurianDoll:  We did this also, but just some advice: Don’t be upset if you don’t end up doing it on the wedding night. We were totally set on doing it, we had planned it and everything, and then, when we got back to our hotel room, we seriously COULD NOT muster the energy. It was kind of sad, because every girl thinks about their wedding night, but I think it’s actually pretty common. By the end of the day, you’re exhausted. 🙂

Post # 4
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4311 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You know, I wish I could say that I did… and I was like, I swear I am not going to the night before, definitely.  Yeah, we did.  Twice.  So much for that.

I wish you the best of luck in trying though!  It’s very intimate right before the wedding… 🙂

Post # 5
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3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

We stopped for seven months and it was the best thing we did! It made our relationship so much stronger and we felt so good about it! Our friends kept telling us how amazing it was that we were able to keep from having sex even though we lived together. We didn’t really understand it. It sucked but we didn’t have any problem with waiting. Our friends decided to try and wait until their wedding,  nine months, and they couldn’t do it. They gave up about three months ago.

Post # 8
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691 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Nope.

Post # 9
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223 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We did. We stopped once we were engaged (September 2012) and are waiting til the wedding. We both know it’ll probably have to wait til the honeymoon cause I’m sure we’ll be exhausted after the wedding! Honestly, I thought it would be very hard…and it has been some days, but it has made us so much stronger as a couple and it’s making us very excited for the honeymoon!!

Post # 10
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4439 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

No way.  That would not have helped how stressed out I was leading up to the big day…. it was bad enough not seeing him overnight the night before and for like 8 hours until our first look.

Post # 11
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4376 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

We did 1 month… and then were too tired on our wedding night (I drifted off in the jacuzzi tub in our room). Next morning was great, though!

Post # 12
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7208 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

Ok… I have to ask:

Are you guys talking about JUST penetration? Or, like, all sexual activity? Cause I could TOTALLY do months and months of no “this could get me pregnant” sex, but everything would be much harder. 

Post # 14
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3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

@TaurianDoll:  Like forplay? You would give up oral???I don’t think I could give up oral….or him…

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

@TaurianDoll:  More power to you girl. Good luck with that

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