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posted 2 weeks ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you commit because of a child?
    No, the relationship needs to be good enough on its own : (64 votes)
    88 %
    Yes, sometimes life happens : (9 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 31
    Member
    6356 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2016

    lauralaura123 :  But are you saying you wouldn’t trust your partner to help you support a baby, even if you were not married? What kind of crappy guy are you dating for 6 years?

    Post # 33
    Member
    4287 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2018

    You would support the baby yourself while staying together with this guy? Or you would break up with him and then have the baby? 

    It’s his baby too and surely he knows that the consequences of having sex is that there is a chance it will result in a baby. 

    lauralaura123 :  

    Post # 34
    Member
    411 posts
    Helper bee

    Well if you hadn’t planned the baby either, why would it be your sole responsibility? 

    The more posts you make about this guy the worse it gets. Is there no one else you could date? lauralaura123 :  

    Post # 35
    Member
    6356 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2016

    lauralaura123 :  You’re not making any logical sense. You’d stay with the guy, yes? But you wouldn’t expect him to help in any way whatsoever? 

    Post # 36
    Member
    292 posts
    Helper bee

    llevinso :  Agreed. I’d like to add, child support isn’t for the parent, it’s for the child, so by denying it, you are denying your hypothetical child financial support and the advantages that come with it.

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