(Closed) Should BeeM Get a second chance?

posted 6 years ago in Photos/Videos
  • poll: Should BeeM get a second chance?
    Yes : (47 votes)
    32 %
    No : (98 votes)
    68 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1763 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I think it is time to move one. That is all.

    Post # 5
    Member
    7779 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    From what I understand, bannings are final. Time to drop it and move on with your life.

    Post # 7
    Member
    4887 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    No amount of us voting will reinstate a banned member.  We saw this with previous incidents.

    Definitely time to move on.

    Post # 8
    Member
    7296 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    i saw this thread and kind of knew that there would be comments like “time to move on”.  But it seems people are voting anyway.  I voted yes, simply because this is a wedding website and i never understand why there is so much drama and in general, i think most people deserve a second chance.  Especially over something as innocuous as posting on here.   BUT, i don’t see it happening – simply because of the outrage it would cause in an effort to give all previous banned bees a chance to come back…..and yes, there is one i am thinking of in particular   😉

    Post # 9
    Member
    788 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    PurpleUnicorn I think you and I are thinking of the same bee. I was about to say, if they allowed beeM to come back there would be a huge outcry to unban that particular bee. I still miss her posts around here. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    3871 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    She was given numerous warnings. So she had a second and third chance already.  I’m sorry but we’ve made the decision we made to protect the members of the site.

    We’re not going to reverse our decision.

    Post # 11
    Member
    4653 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I agree unbanning 1 person would just open a can of worms…

    Post # 12
    Member
    2239 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Okay I really don’t think it’s all that serious…this is a wedding site for crying out loud!

    Post # 13
    Member
    994 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Better question, does she want to come back after being treated like that?

    Post # 14
    Member
    2247 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Are you related to this BeeM person, or something?  Because you’re wayy too concerned with their involvement in this site.  Let it go!  It is site policy that if someone gets banned, they’re gone for good.  It wouldn’t be fair to others to bring one person back after they received several warnings and persisted with rule violations.

    Post # 15
    Member
    5296 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1993

    @dynamic_duo: this. Yes, I don’t think she should have been banned. There are other posters who offend/annoy much more often than BeeM ever did and they are still here. I do think she went too far in her comments, but think she would have changed her tone if she came back. But then we should allow other banned Bees to come back as well. I will sincerely miss her input.

    But I truly don’t think posting threads like this do anything to help. If we let BeeM back, then there is a whole list of others who should be allowed a second chance as well.

    Post # 16
    Member
    10288 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @Pinksapphire: I was wondering the same thing. Up until yesterday I thought that the OP and beeM were the same person. User876 seems to be taking this banning way too personally.   

    I’ll echo the PP’s with “it’s time to move on”. 

    ETA: Whether or not beeM should have been banned is not for me to decide. I did see a number of her posts and I do agree that they were on the snarky side. She and I got into it a few days ago but prior to that, I hadn’t even heard of her (I don’t spend a lot of time on the photo board, though). I do find it strange that she managed to get banned but some very aggressive and downright hurtful posters are still able to roam free. 

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