(Closed) Should BM’s be invited to all the bridal showers?

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
301 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I think that they should. You should include your Bridesmaid or Best Man and as well as the mother of the groom. I would at least :”]]

Post # 4
2103 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I would invite them…but also let them know you don’t expect a gift for every shower. 

Post # 5
32 posts
  • Wedding: June 2011

For the first one, I’d invite them but maybe let them know that you’d love to have them there, but you totally understand if they can’t give up another weekend day to your wedding and that you certainly don’t expect a gift.  I would invite the groom’s mom to the first one, since it’s a nice opportunity for her to get to know the ladies on your side of the family.

Post # 7
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’d invite them to all but let them know it’s not a requirement to attend and give a gift everytime. 

Post # 8
714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@texanna:  I believe its only proper to invite guests to one shower so they don’t feel obligated to get you multiple gifts. 

Post # 9
987 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I wouldn’t want to be invited to more than 1 shower.  Firstly, feeling obligated to buy more than 1 gift, and secondly because I don’t want to spend more time at a shower – I don’t find them that exciting.

I would invited the groom’s mother.

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