(Closed) Should he want to go to her birthday party?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Should he go to her birthday party?
    Yes : (4 votes)
    4 %
    No : (45 votes)
    51 %
    Yes and you should go with him. : (38 votes)
    43 %
    I think you need to reconsider this relationship. : (2 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    666 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Yes you should go with him.  He told you the reason he wants to go is to be around with his other friends.

    Post # 4
    Member
    11273 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @greenidlady:  did she only invite your fi to her party or both of you?  would he be ok if you went too?  if there are a lot of people there, you won’t have to spend much time with her directly.

    have you or your fi seen her since she sent these inappropriate messages?

    Post # 5
    Member
    1102 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Before my Fiance and I were together he had a friend named ‘Victoria’. We all started hanging out together when Fiance and I started dating and I just never really liked ‘Vicky’.

    She was just really flirty with my Fiance all the time and I knew he and her had gone fishing etc before I came around.

    One day I said something to Fiance about it and he was like ‘yeah I used to like her’ and then I really didn’t like her.

    I wouldn’t appreciate him hanging out with ‘Vicky’ without me and when we were all together I made sure ‘Vicky’ knew he was all mine!

    I would go to the birthday and make sure this girl knows he’s TAKEN.

    Post # 8
    Member
    1828 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I was going to say Yes and you should go with him until I saw that your update said only your Fiance was invited…not a chance then that my Fiance would be going if that was the case.

    (Maybe you should update and add that part to your first post since not everyone reads the updates)

    Post # 10
    Member
    11273 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @greenidlady:  she didn’t even invite you?  that’s rude.  i say no.  tell your fi that he can have a night with his friends another time.

    Post # 12
    Member
    2254 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @greenidlady:  Wow those messages to your SO are so disrespectful considering she knew who you were and knew your SO was in a relationship! If I were you, I wouldn’t go bc I wouldn’t be able to stay civil to her. I wouldn’t mind my SO going as much bc there are other mutual friends there, and it seems he wants to go more to hang with them. Also, when she sent him those messages I’m sure he diffused the situation and told you right? It shows he’s trustworthy to behave himself.

    Post # 14
    Member
    8472 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I don’t think either of you should go. Obviously this girl is causing issues and it is just not worth it. He can see his friends any other time. If he does go without you, he’s pretty messed up. 

    Post # 15
    Member
    2254 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @greenidlady:  If that’s the case, don’t go for the sheer reason you wouldn’t enjoy yourself. 

    Post # 16
    Member
    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    The poll results are shocking to me.  Of course I wouldn’t go!  I don’t think either of you should go.  She has blatant disrespect for your relatonship!

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