Should I add an end time to my invites?

posted 1 year ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Sugar bee

We had an 11pm hard stop (but did not put it on our invite) so we designated a bar to go to for an after party. We put it on our website and used word of mouth. We worked with the bar to provide late night snacks (mini burgers, tots, etc.).

Post # 3
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Honey bee

peekaboobs :  I would put it on your wedding website. Are you having a DJ? If so, he/she can announce last call.

Post # 5
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Honey bee

At most I would probably just do it on the save the date.  Maybe have your reception entertainment say something.  Every wedding I have been to, someone (dj or band leader or emcee) makes the last call announcement 30 minutes before the end of the reception and everyone pretty much understands that means everything is wrapping up.  That would be a good time for that announcement just to reiterate if they don’t understand the hint and mention the nightlife opportunities then.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I did. But mainly because we’re having a long day (12 hours) and wanted to write down a schedule with meal times.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

We put it on our wedding website (we listed vaguely the day, so evening guests don’t miss the first dance/parents of kids know food timings etc) another good place for it would be the info card if you’re having one, rather than directly on the invite?

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

peekaboobs :  I’ve put carriages at midnight on mine. 

Post # 10
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Busy bee

I would put it on your save the dates. That way people can make a plan in advance about what they’re going to do after if anything

It may also help people decide what to do if they have childcare arrangements to make (I.e they might just get a babysitter rather than have family watch their kids overnight etc)

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

If there is a certain time that guests had to leave i would appreciate it. The save the date could have the time. It helps to make travel plans. There is abug difference between 10pm and 1am when thinking about driving, hotel, trains, flights, babysitters etc.

I’m attending a wedding this summer in another city. I’m a student in a budget and no car so i would love to know If I had to book a hotel or if I can still catch the last train home. I’m used to wedding that last till 2am but this wedding starts earlier than others.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee

I would put it there. I would also put it as a send off. So bride and groom have their send off at 9:45. If last call is called at 9:15-9:30 and music is wrapped at 10. Then just have someplace picked out nearby for the party crowd to keep going. Pass the info word of mouth as well. 

Most people aren’t going to continue to party at the venue once the bride and groom are gone and having a coordinated after party should work well.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I put it on our “website” which is a facebook event, which is also the save the date. I know its considered rude to put it on the invite, but I would find some other way to tell people. It just seems to me like a good idea generally to have people who are drinking know when they have to leave. 

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