(Closed) Should I address this weird thing our friend did?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 15
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yep, second all the PPs – delete her and block.  That’s so weird and bizarre; I would feel SO SO SO uncomfortable with that.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Uhhh awwwwwwwkward! I think I’d delete her for sure!

Post # 17
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Hahahaha – oh Facebook…

My mom is on it, and she “gets it”, in part because my sister and I gave her some facebook etiquette lessons before we’d be her “friend” (haha)… but she has a friend who definitely does NOT get it…  she posted a professional photograph of herself – with quite a bit of cleavage – and tagged a bunch of her friends in it, I guess so they would see it?  But she tagged my mom as her right boob. Like RIGHT on where her nipple would be, is my mom. BOOB.

My mom was all “Help!! I want to untag it but I don’t want to hurt her feelings!!”  I couldnt stop laughing any time I looked at my Mom’s page, and the very first picture of her in the heading was a boob.

Anyways – my point is, I wouldn’t diagnose her as a total psycho – but that is TOTALLY wierd, and I think untagging and unfriending is fine, or if you don’t want to unfriend her, just send her a message saying youd rather not have anyone tagging your photos.

Post # 18
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

What? Was she trying to be funny? That is super gross. I’d delete and probably never go back to karaoke again. Yeesh.

Post # 18
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Bee Keeper

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@bakerella:  Such a good excuse! I totally agree!

Post # 18
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

What? Was she trying to be funny? That is super gross. I’d delete and probably never go back to karaoke again. Yeesh.

Post # 19
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

she probably doesn’t know how to use facebook. LOL.

Post # 20
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Bee Keeper

I guess you have heard the majority: Delete and BLOCK.

This is not just weird, this is stalking!

And if you have any other problems, try asking FACEBOOK, maybe they can block her if she does this to others too!

Post # 21
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

oh my god delete and block. this hardcore gave me the creeps. i cant get into it much further than that…this is the oddest thing i’ve ever heard of!!!!!

Post # 22
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

That is super weird. If she isn’t someone you want to maintain a friendship with then I vote for the delete and block option.

It definitely could be that she doesn’t really know the ins and outs of using FB. I have a friend (who is my age) who finally got on Facebook and she does the weirdest things. Like, tagging me in a picture of her brother and his friends drinking. Uh…weird.

Post # 23
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

It’s probably just a case of what a few other people mentioned – older people don’t seem to “get” the point of tagging pictures in Facebook, and she probably just liked your photos and wanted to have them in her album. One of my husband’s Aunt’s did this to ALL of the wedding pictures we posted on Facebook, and I was totally creeped out at first, until I realized why she was doing it – I just untagged her and she didn’t re-tag herself.

Post # 24
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

even before she tagged your photos– I have zero tolerance for bigotry. I would have unfriended her a long time ago, not just blocked her. 

so I agree with PPs. she has now crossed the line. undfriend her, untag the photos, and block her.

I wonder if there is a way you can untag all photos at the same time? it’s worth looking into.  it might automatically happen when you unfriend or block her, but I’m not positive.

Post # 25
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Gross. delete and block. 

Post # 26
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Umm if you don’t like her posts/don’t really know her/don’t subscribe to her posts then your not going to lose out by defriending her, as she’s not really a friend anyway 🙂

Post # 27
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

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@mandypop:  I’m laughing so hard I’m crying! 

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