(Closed) Should I ask Fi to take boudoir pics for me?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Should I ask FI to take boudoir Photographs for me?
    Yes : (9 votes)
    23 %
    No : (30 votes)
    75 %
    Other, state below. : (1 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    Tough call! There is something sexy and fun about him being the one to do the shoot. I’d definitely consider it. Sure, receiving the photos won’t be a surprise, but he’ll still have beautiful photos of you in the end and have a fun time.

    Post # 4
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @zoecn:  I personally wouldn’t have FH take them because I know that we wouldn’t actually get any pictures taken. He’d take one look at what I was wearing (or not wearing…), put down the camera, and go to town.

    Post # 5
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I think there’s a fun element of surprise if you didn’t have him do it. That way, the first time he sees the photos will be in a cute little album and it’ll be all the best shots.

    Post # 7
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    624 posts
    Busy bee

    I would get some done somewhere else, show him and then let him to take some naughtier ones!

    Post # 8
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @Blackie:  Great idea! 

    @zoecn:  I can’t really think of a way to talk about it without giving it away :/

    Post # 10
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Hire the photographer for sure.  She has experience and will be able to stick you in flattering poses and be able to photoshop away any flaws.  Your Fiance doesn’t have the experience to know what poses are best. 

    I’d have the session with the photographer, invite Fiance over to the room after you’re done with the shoot, and maybe pull out some chocolate covered strawberries and champagne.

    All he knows is that you planned a romantic and sexy night together.  Later, you can gift him with the book as a surprise momento from that night!

    Post # 12
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    If you decide to have the Fiance do it, what about planning a special night for the honeymoon.  Have the outfits, camera, lighting, and everything planned just right!  I’m sure he would love to take the photos and have it be a night to remember! 

     

    Then give the photos he takes to the professional and let them do the touchups to the photos.  You can give them to him as a special present for Christmas or birthday or whateever!  Whatever you do I am sure you will have fun!

     

    Post # 13
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @s2bmrscook:  I swear the only reason my Fiance held off so long on getting engaged is because I kept planning these “romantic nights” as opportunities for him to propose 😛

    Post # 14
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @BeachBride2014:  haha! they do love those romantic nights, don’t they?

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