(Closed) Should I ask her to be a BM? Help!!!

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
114 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

People come into your life for a time and a season. Now is her time. You can know someone there whole life and they might not be as good as a friend as she has over the past 8 months. I say go for it!

Post # 4
521 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I belive that you should. I don’t believe there should be a time limit to the friendship that you have had to make her a Bridesmaid or Best Man. One of my Bridesmaid or Best Man I just meet like six months ago because one of my friends that I meet in college starting dating her. She is the most excited out of the three and that includes my sister. She also is the most helpful. As long as you can trust her, I would ask her over the hs friend that I haven’t talked to her for years.

LOL–I also have a friend that moved to Canada but she is coming down for the wedding as a bm. 😀



Post # 5
2641 posts
Sugar bee

 I agree. If you would like her to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man, don’t be afraid to ask her.  It sounds like she’d like that too.

Post # 6
86 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I agree… I say go for it.  It sounds like she’s really been there for you when you’ve needed her and that she’s been a good friend.  I don’t think the short amount of time knowing her should keep you from asking her.  Smile

Post # 8
4382 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Ceremony - First United Methodist Church; Reception - My parents' house!

I think you made a good decision. 🙂

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