(Closed) Should I ask her??

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Should I ask L to be a maid?
    Yes. : (1 votes)
    9 %
    No. : (6 votes)
    55 %
    Wait a while to see how things play out, then decide. : (4 votes)
    36 %
    Ask her if she plans to stay, would she like to be BM. : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    474 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @littletop:  It seems you are not very close with this girl. Do you want to look back in 10 years and see a “space-filler” as your BM? She may be artistic but will it be worth it looking back?

    Post # 4
    2515 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    you shouldn’t ask someone just because you want help with planning your wedding. that’s not what BM’s are for. you should be asking people whom you want standing up for you at your wedding. it doesn’t sound like you’re clost with this girl so i would say no to asking her.

    Post # 6
    9691 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I don’t think it’s a good idea just to ask someone so they can help with your wedding or because they offered to help you some.  You should only ask those who you couldn’t imagine not being a bridesmaid IMO.  Your sides don’t need to match, 8 is a lot.  Just keep the 5 you have and leave it at that.

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