(Closed) Should I ask him to go ring shopping?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
73 posts
Worker bee

@Soon To Bee: Depends on your relationship with SO. If it were me, I would ask or already know if he had the ring or not. Is it possible to just ask if he has a ring? And if not, by all means go together to look at the one you want : )

Post # 4
1468 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

@Soon To Bee: Your mom might be right, but there’s no way for you to know. I think I would still suggest a ring shopping trip, if only as a formality. Because 1) you’re not supposed to know if he did get an heirloom ring, so you should still carry on as if you don’t, and 2) he may get a better idea of what you like and even decide to reset the heirloom stone.

Since you know it will happen within a year, I would not stress too much. You have plenty of time. Also don’t nag, but lightheartedly remind him you still want to go ring browsing. If he pushes back, then maybe you shouldn’t push the issue further, because I would think that means he has it under control.

If he decides he doesn’t need to go, then perhaps you can e-mail him some pics of rings you like, just in case he needs some guidance. But he may not! Then just relax and enjoy the one-year wait. I’m sure over the course of the year the topic will come up organically b/w the two of you, that way you can loving communicate on the matter.

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