(Closed) Should I ask or let it go?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Should I ask her to be honest about the real reason why she isn't coming anymore:yes or no?
    Yes ask her : (12 votes)
    17 %
    No, let sleeping dogs lie : (59 votes)
    83 %
  • Post # 17
    Member
    963 posts
    Busy bee

    @imnotarunner7:  I’m confused when is your Wedding?  Are you having 2 Weddings? Your Wedding date is listed as Sept 2012

    Post # 19
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    2235 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I find these posts offensive. What exactly do you think you’re entitled to “confront” her about? When your friend owes you $ and tells you she can’t pay you back then is on Facebook bragging about her new big screen TV, then you can confront her. Until then, not your business.

     

    When you have a destination wedding, you are inviting people to pay for a trip of your choosing on your timetable. I think that’s okay, as long as you understand some people may prefer to spend their money and time off other ways, and saying, if you really cared about me, you would sacrifice all other luxuries for however long so you could afford to come to my wedding is self absorption at its worst.

    Post # 20
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    3115 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2018

    @Tatum:  ok back off. She said she wasn’t going to ask. She’s upset. 

    Post # 21
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    2235 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    @relaxedaboutit-

     

    My phone doesn’t automatically update so I didn’t see the newest post from OP or I wouldn’t have said anything. But thanks for playing hall monitor.

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