(Closed) should i ask someone not to attend the wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: How do i ask my co-worker not to come to my wedding?

    just let her come and be uncomfortable

    Just say its really not a good idea you come

    We changed the list to very close fam and friends

  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    I’d be shocked if she came after that

    Post # 5
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2014

    Why don’t you just ask her what the deal is?

    Post # 8
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 2019 - Canada

    I would bet she wont come. And if she does I think you’ll have enough people to distract you that you probably wont even notice. I wouldnt worry much about it honestly

    Post # 9
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

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    @kenya.latham.1:  isn’t it already uncomfortable at work if she’s being nasty to you?

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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    If she’s really being that nasty, telling her to not come is basically begging for her to show up univited to cause drama.

    Post # 13
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 2019 - Canada

    Thats just weird. I wonder what her problem is. Most people just keep their distance if they stop liking someone for one reason or another…  not act like a 5-year-old.

    Post # 14
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

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    @kenya.latham.1:  ah okay I know people like that. I wouldn’t bring it up TBH because if you make it a point to ask her not to come she might come out of spite. 

    Post # 15
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    If you don’t trust her to be honest with you woman-to-woman, what make you think she’ll be honest with you if she says she won’t attend?

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