Post # 1
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Helper bee
There is this girl i work with, and we use to be real close. Since ive been engaged she has been really nasty and not even talking to me. She even backed out of coming to the bridal shower and took herself out of the wedding. I really dont want to chance she wont come to the wedding so i wanted to ask her not to come. I think i may be uncomfortable she is there, because it wont be sincere and she may just acted nasty to me there. How do i ask her not to come anymore?
Post # 3
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Honey bee
I’d be shocked if she came after that
Post # 4
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Helper bee
@Laurenplusalex: me too but when someone is nosey and want to be nasty because they are unhappy they will come for that reason only
Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
Why don’t you just ask her what the deal is?
Post # 6
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Helper bee
Im really surprise some people would be uncomfortable just to let someone else attend thier wedding.
Post # 7
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Helper bee
@EffieTrinket: well i know if i do she wont be honest or itll be just as uncomfortable at work
Post # 8
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Honey bee
- Wedding: November 2019 - Canada
I would bet she wont come. And if she does I think you’ll have enough people to distract you that you probably wont even notice. I wouldnt worry much about it honestly
Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
@kenya.latham.1: isn’t it already uncomfortable at work if she’s being nasty to you?
Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
If she’s really being that nasty, telling her to not come is basically begging for her to show up univited to cause drama.
Post # 11
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Helper bee
@MrsBeck: well a little but she goes back and forth. I cant explain it, its like shes bi-polar
im not joking
Post # 12
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Helper bee
@Charliejeorge: yea but she said i wont be at your shower really nasty but ill make the wedding! lol and walked away
Post # 13
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Honey bee
- Wedding: November 2019 - Canada
Thats just weird. I wonder what her problem is. Most people just keep their distance if they stop liking someone for one reason or another… not act like a 5-year-old.
Post # 14
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Bumble Beekeeper
@kenya.latham.1: ah okay I know people like that. I wouldn’t bring it up TBH because if you make it a point to ask her not to come she might come out of spite.
Post # 15
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Buzzing Beekeeper
If you don’t trust her to be honest with you woman-to-woman, what make you think she’ll be honest with you if she says she won’t attend?
Post # 16
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Helper bee
@Hyperventilate: well she didnt attend,my bridal shower was sat. Now my wedding is next fri.
Its just messy. Shes the kind of person that shell be mad at you ,wont tell what it is and then just start talking to you again and dont even bring up why she was mad