(Closed) Should I ask to alter my engagement ring?

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
2779 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I personally like diamonds set with prongs & not enclosed in metal the way yours is currently. I think the way you have it now makes it look smaller than it would set in a prongs.

Post # 3
422 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I personally would prong set that diamond- I think it will show off the stone better 🙂


Post # 3
5585 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2007 - City, State

I think putting it in a setting with prongs would really make that diamond stand out. I think the setting it’s in now kind of covers it’s beauty.. I vote a prong setting! 

Post # 4
34 posts

I LOVE your ring. I feel bezel settings are so much more unique. It is completely up to you, personally if your Fiance designed it I would stick with it for a while just to see if it grows on you. Bezels are great for not getting snagged on things and they protect the stone better from dings and chips. Prongs are good for showing more light through and more fire. It is 50-50 either way, but I would keep it. your ring is beautiful!

Post # 5
12 posts

I think your ring looks really stylish!  With that being said, I myself prefer prong set.

Post # 6
57 posts
Worker bee

I vote to change it. A beautiful, large stone like that just screams “solitaire” to me 🙂 

Post # 7
755 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

Your ring is beautiful, but I would also want a prong setting rather than a bezel – I think a prong setting would really show off the stone at it’s best (but that’s just my personal taste).

Would your Fiance be hurt if you asked to change it? 

Post # 8
1838 posts
Buzzing bee

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allison469:  Personally I love the bezel. It gives your solitaire e ring a sense of uniqueness that the changing to a prong setting will take away. Plus, I love the sentiment that your Fiance designed it for you. I say leave it for a while. Give it time to grow on you. If you still want to change it then speak with your Fiance about getting it changed for your anniversary. 

Post # 9
1757 posts
Buzzing bee

I don’t know your lifestyle- but I love bezel set stones because I am constantly doing things with my hands and prongs catch on things. I’ve never had a problem with bezel getting caught in my hair, or snagging on the sheets while I’m making the bed. Plus bezel feels more secure (in my opinion) so I’m less worried about the stone falling out.

Post # 11
668 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Keep it! There is something so simple and classic about a bezel setting. Its something you dont see every day. And if your Fiance designed it himself I would leave it. He did good!



Post # 13
4497 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I love the bezel. No way I would change that.

Post # 15
10544 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

I like the bezel setting alot! And trust me your 2 carat diamond will look substantial no matter how it’s set! I think your ring looks sleek and elegant, I’d keep it as is 🙂

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