(Closed) Should i axe my only bridesmaid ?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@penguinslovecrumpets:  This is ridiculous. I don’t think you wrote one positive thing about this woman. Axe her from your wedding, and from your life.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Yeah this is pretty ridiculous. I woulnt’ have her as a friend, let alone a bridesmaid. I can see accomodating a vegetarian meal option but going to all that extra expense and time is just not worth it. Tell her that you are relieving her of her duties because you didn’t want to put her through the agony of compromising her morals for your wedidng day.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Yes.

That day is the penguinslovescrumpets show. Not hers. 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Yup. Tell her that you get the sense that this is really stressing her out, and that you think it would be better for her to attend as a special guest. Give her a reading or something if you must placate her, but her behavior is beyond inconsiderate and inappropriate, moving into Personality Disorder Land.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

seriously…if I were you, I would be done with her at “color theme”.  It is not her wedding.  She doesn’t get to pick colors.  With this much of demand, I seriously will axe her off from my life. 

I don’t think this girl cares of your wedding.  Do yourself a favor and save yourself further troubles.  If your wedding is in 2014, you still have plenty of time to re-plan back to your original plan. 

Don’t waste time on this girl.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

toss her. and i hope you’re having a pig roast reception.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@mamadingdong:  I Second that. (I actually AM having a pig roast) 🙂

Post # 10
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Busy bee

@mamadingdong:  hahaha.  Your pig roast comment just made my day. 🙂

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Oh my goodness! PLEASE axe this person from your wedding. I totally respect her morals, but her job is to support you through one of the most stressful journeys in your life. She doesnt need to be this high maintenance !!! You should be making plans to suit and please you, and she shouldnt be making you feel guilty for wanting what you do. I agree with the girls, find her a job in a different department, tell her that her position has been downsized, or that your wedding is moving in a different direction. Whatever you do, get this dramatic whirlwind out of your bridal party and employ someone new!!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Um, I would tell her that you will respect her wishes but either a) she can do the research involved to find providers that suit her or b) she can hire her own people/do her own thing at her own expense. This all sounds a bit ridiculous to me, actually!

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Be done with her! She’s being completely unreasonable. Sounds like you have bent over backwards and she refuses to participate in anything. 

 

You’ll enjoy your wedding much more if you get rid of her! 

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

I think having your sisters in your wedding instead would be a lovely idea. I’m a vegetarian, and one of the things that pi$$es me off the most about fellow veggies is when they go extreme, trying to force their believes on other people. It’s your day, your colors, etc., she needs to just zip it.

Post # 14
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Bumble Beekeeper

@Cornflakegirl:  “This is ridiculous. I don’t think you wrote one positive thing about this woman. Axe her from your wedding, and from your life.”


Well, my work here is done *brushes hands together*.  Exactly what she said!

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i really want you to ask her to eat a baby.

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