(Closed) Should I be a bridesmaid? Help.

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
6892 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

That is really awkward. I am curious what the financial burden of adding a few BMs is, though? I didn’t find it all that expensive other than a little bit more in bridal party gifts and bouquets.

What does your gut tell you to do? Do you want to be in it?


Post # 4
2586 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

If I bought her explanation, I’d say you should.  But that is a lame/fishy excuse.  If she had been honest and said something about how it was because you guys had only just started reparing your relationship… 

Echoing @AmeliaBedelia:  what is your gut feeling about this?

Post # 6
5660 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Agreed, that’s awkward. I wonder, do you feel like with the stress that sometimes bride/bridesmaids put each other through, and the stress of weddings, do you think your newly found relationship would be hurt again by participating? Is your sister a pretty reasonable person where small things won’t hurt your relationship all over again or would it bring you together?

If it was me I think I would consider how it would affect our relationship

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