(Closed) Should I be annoyed??

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I wouldn’t trust her. Maybe you need to spend less time with her 

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t think you’re being ureasonable.  She sounds sketchy to me.  I would avoid being around her as much as possible if I were you.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Next time swinging is brought up you very firmly tell her you as a couple aren’t interested. And talk to your Fiance about it before you get together the next time. Most guys are oblivious until it is in their face. Sometimes a heads up can help a situation.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@lilipad55:  I woudn’t trust her either.  I would also separate myself & Fiance from her. She sounds like she has ulterior motives.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

She might know that this bothers you and is doing it to stir up drama or get a rise out of you.  I’d just spend less time around them.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Who does that?!? What is wrong with people?!?!

I don’t think I’d spend any more time with her… alone or with my Fiance.

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper

The PP have said it, don’t trust her!

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper

I agree in limiting my time with her both with Fiance and without. She sounds really sketchy and wouldn’t be someone I would trust. 

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Just keep your guard up. She could genuinely just be a flirty person, and you notice it more because she’s hot. 

But it’s definitely your right to analyze and see if this behaviour continues. The salad thing is weird to me.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

Seriously, both my Darling Husband and I would have laughed in her face so hard at the salad thing lol!

I would start limiting how much time you hang out together.

Post # 13
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Honey Beekeeper

Ugh. That really bothers me. I don’t think you’re being unreasonable. I’d first talk to your Fiance about how she makes you feel, and second, decide as a couple how you’ll spend your time with them/if you’ll limit your exposure to her. I think it’s important you both be on a team here.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

Ew that is so weird!  And right in front of you, too.  I agree with Gemstone, talk to your Fiance about it then stop hanging out with her.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I’d call her out on it– “what are you doing to your salad? you look ridiculous!” and laugh at her.  

Also yes, hang out with her less.  She’s immature.

Post # 16
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would not trust her at all! Maybe see if anyone else is noticing it also..

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