Post # 1
I just want to ask you bees about this situation because i dont know if its all im my head or if i should be offended.
ok so i have this friend that i have since highschool, andsince he and Fiance get along so well (I think they are in love lol), we try to go on double dates. Well this guy has a Girlfriend that he has had forever (they have been together since before me and FI) and she is nice. Her and I have hung out from time to time and its been fun, we both like the same things and agree on alot of things, but everytime that we all hang out together, i get a weird vibe, like she is hitting on my Fiance.
so the first time we were down the shore together and we shared a room because it was cheaper. well this girl does have a nice body, but i dont hate her for it, but i didnt appreciate the fact that she sprawler herslef all on the bed practicaly spread eagle in front of my Fiance GGGRRRRRRRR. I decided to let it go.
so recently we have been hanging out and i realize that when its just me and her, there is absolutely NO talk of sex, but when we are in front of Fiance she cant seem to talk about anything else, and it didnt bother me, until she randomly brong up swinging. Then I catch her take a piece of her salad (we were eating) and start to flick it with her toung, and then faster, and then she looks up at Fiance while she is doing it!!!!! I wanted to jump over that table and f*cking tear her face off!!!! But I didnt because in a lady, or because i didnt want to get arrested, one or the other. This is the same chick that told me that she is VERY attracted to a guy that looks like my Fiance
So Bees what do u think??? Am I beeing unresaonable about this or do I have a right to feel sketchy about this girl??? I mean I would never say anything to her or do anything about it until she tried to make a move, then all hell will break loose.
Post # 3
I wouldn’t trust her. Maybe you need to spend less time with her
Post # 4
I don’t think you’re being ureasonable. She sounds sketchy to me. I would avoid being around her as much as possible if I were you.
Post # 5
Next time swinging is brought up you very firmly tell her you as a couple aren’t interested. And talk to your Fiance about it before you get together the next time. Most guys are oblivious until it is in their face. Sometimes a heads up can help a situation.
Post # 6
@lilipad55: I woudn’t trust her either. I would also separate myself & Fiance from her. She sounds like she has ulterior motives.
Post # 7
She might know that this bothers you and is doing it to stir up drama or get a rise out of you. I’d just spend less time around them.
Post # 8
Who does that?!? What is wrong with people?!?!
I don’t think I’d spend any more time with her… alone or with my Fiance.
Post # 9
The PP have said it, don’t trust her!
Post # 10
I agree in limiting my time with her both with Fiance and without. She sounds really sketchy and wouldn’t be someone I would trust.
Post # 11
Just keep your guard up. She could genuinely just be a flirty person, and you notice it more because she’s hot.
But it’s definitely your right to analyze and see if this behaviour continues. The salad thing is weird to me.
Post # 12
Seriously, both my Darling Husband and I would have laughed in her face so hard at the salad thing lol!
I would start limiting how much time you hang out together.
Post # 13
Ugh. That really bothers me. I don’t think you’re being unreasonable. I’d first talk to your Fiance about how she makes you feel, and second, decide as a couple how you’ll spend your time with them/if you’ll limit your exposure to her. I think it’s important you both be on a team here.
Post # 14
- Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo
Ew that is so weird! And right in front of you, too. I agree with Gemstone, talk to your Fiance about it then stop hanging out with her.
Post # 15
I’d call her out on it– “what are you doing to your salad? you look ridiculous!” and laugh at her.
Also yes, hang out with her less. She’s immature.
Post # 16
I would not trust her at all! Maybe see if anyone else is noticing it also..