(Closed) Should I be concerned about this?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think it’s her choice and I think it will be fine.

Post # 4
3281 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

That seems pretty reasonable to me. Getting home at 10:30 and leaving at 8 seems like plenty of time. If that’s what she wants to do I wouldn’t be worried!

Post # 5
3574 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think it will be fine.

Post # 6
12629 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s her choice — and it’s also a year away.  Things change, and she may decide to stay overnight closer.  Don’t stress about these teeny tiny details this far out!

Post # 8
60 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@nawella:  Hm, I see what you mean.  If she’s really tired from all the activity, the drive home and back the next morning could be a bit much.  I think it couldn’t hurt to say something like, “Hey, with all the activity of the wedding, do you think you’ll be able to get enough sleep and time to yourself between the rehearsal and the wedding?”  If she’s more of an introvert, the “time by yourself” thing could be especially important for her.  It can’t hurt to bring it up.  At least then she’ll have all the information before deciding what to do. 

Post # 9
2626 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@nawella:  It’s not a bad drive, I wouldn’t worry about it.

Post # 11
1592 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

FI gave himself 90 minutes to get to his best friend’s June wedding in Brooklyn.Never did it occur to him to sleep there. He left here by 8:30 a.m.

Post # 12
9556 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Let her worry about it. She’ll know what’s best for her. And anything you can not worry about is good!

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