(Closed) Should I be happy? FI said he will pay ALL the bills..but…

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
41 posts
  • Wedding: September 2011

My Fiance is completely different.  He’s pretty involved so far, like with calling venues, vendors, going to the flower mart, honeymoon planning, giving input in many things and even going to a bridal show this weekend.  I guess it depends on the guy, my Fiance is all about bling and details so he actually cares how the wedding turns out. 

Post # 33
656 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I just want to point out, we have been planning the perfect wedding since we were five..and he probably hasn’t ever even thought about it until he met you! You are the wedding to him, not all the flowers, table cards, invites, etc etc. Most guys would be happy skipping the whole event and just going straight to the honeymoon. I think we need to give them some credit–this is such a new thing for them..and after all, they are willing to go through this for the sole reason of keeping us happy!

I am not writing this to excuse male laziness, just to point out that we may interpreting “I’m a guy and don’t know how to act/ what I’m allowed to have an opinion on” syndrome as “indeffference.”

It’s up to each of us to make sure they know how much (or how little) we want them to be involved up front. A good-hearted, loving guy will pretty much do anything his girl asks as long as he knows what’s expected of him!


Post # 34
253 posts
Helper bee

Yesssss ..are yiu kidding me thats great not having to fight about what to pick thats golden… I wishhh for that… Just imagin you going for the flowers and him not liking the ones you loveee lol … just an example but you would be dissapointed… Most men know

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