- 8 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
Ok let start with my life its just me and my mom, my dad doesnt care for me as much as his other children. Me and my husband are married not official cause we got married in mexico and we still have to sign papers in canada. So my dad didnt not pay for the wedding my mom did not pay for the wedding. My husband saved all his money to pay for our wedding. And he payed for my mother to go as well. The whoel wedding cost 2000.00 Other then use paying 17,000 for a wedding in canada with 300 family members of people i dotn know. We said if you want to come please pay your ow way. My HB dad paid for their imidant family memeber to go. I didnt ask him too he just did it. He also gave us a gift by paying for out wedding bill of 2000.00 which included everything, makeup hair ceremony food picutres and so on. So we get back and everything is fine and now we are settling in, just for the christmas holidays and we had plans to make a personal christmas card and send them out to everyone, plus the thank you cards all in one along with the slideshow of the wedding. All of 200 professional photos.
I got a call of his dad asking for a picutre of the whole family a group picture. Well they took it into their own hands to send this photo to the whole fmaily. Event though i was going to do the same thing. It felt like they are beating me to the punch. How original, i thought i was? Also you knew i was?
So i send the photo, even though i was a bit upset. Then i get a call fromhis sister. She was saying how they want all my professional photos. Cause the family one wasnt good enough. She said for one thing your mom is int he picture and forbid ew cant have that. My husband does like the face he is making in the photo and my moms hair is too messy. and my daughter is not smiling. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!! So having a beach wedding and having this group picutre was not good enough. Cause the wind mesed up some peoples hair and so on. I felt offended for one thing is i should of been involved. Second the reason they wanted all prints was cause they were goign to crop out certain photos. Take my mom out replace the not smiling photos with a smiling one, hair issues cause its not good enough. Unreal. Do you girls think i should be upset about this.
This happened three days ago and i havnt made a comment about it, but what got me upset is that my HB commented and said he talked to his fmaily and they said that i was a fuckin BITCH for not giving the photos to them as they paid for the whole wedding. I just feel that i am going to have this problem of who paid for what and i am going to have to bow down to this fact everytime. Its unreal, and its christmas. They said that i am lucky for all the gifts they got me and i shouldnt be the one to receive them!!. I honestly dont want anything from them as christmas is not about givnign then getting all pissed off that i got you a gift. Its about loving and glad your alive to share eachothers lives together. I dotn want to go to xmas dinner. I want to pull the sick card. cause i feel that i am getting attaxcked by everyone.