(Closed) Should I be worried…?

posted 12 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
125 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think you should talk to HIM about your concerns. You’re a couple, a unit. Tell him how much it would mean to you if he’d participate, at least a little bit, in the wedding planning process, to ensure it’s a day for both of you.

Post # 4
34 posts
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think a bridal show would be overwhelm for my normally very sweet and progressive fiance. I would think that a guy who won’t even do little stuff would probably be extra hesitant about a bridal show!

How about a compromise? Let him know how much you’d love for him to attend the bridal show- but give him a Get Out of Jail Free card, asking him if he’d be willing to break it up into a few other wedding-related activities instead.

Post # 5
228 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2020

My fiance has been good about helping with wedding planning, but he would never go to a bridal show, even if I bribed him. Never Ever especially not the biggest one of the year. You should really let him know that you want him to help out even if it is heading up a few small things or a couple of big things. I wouldn’t hold it against him if he doesn’t want to go to the expo but he needs to know you would like him to participate in some planning. i like theartofliving’s response compromise it!

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