- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
Okay, I love my fiance so much and we are such a happy couple. With the wedding quickly approaching and wedding plans in full swing, I have been living on our computer, doing searches, bookmarking sites for inspiration…etc. Wanting to go back and find a site I had earlier closed, I went through the browser’s history and found some questionable sites…sites that I had not visited.
We’ve been together for years, and of course we’ve had the talk about looking at provacative pictures of women online…blah..blah, etc, etc. I know it happens off and on, which is fine.
But that’s not what I found…no women. Instead I found that he was looking at websites for men’s underwear…very explicit pictures of men in not-so-manly underwear.
So, I thought, that seems strange. Maybe he is looking at this stuff for himself, for the wedding night? Also, I considered that maybe he is just looking at pictures of guys to compare himself to them – since a lot of the pictures include buff guys. He is a slender guy, but lately he has really been turning up the workout regime, telling me he is trying to look better for me.
So, with that considered, I let that finding go and forgot about it. Our love life has been great, so nothing strange there.
Months went by and I found that he had been turning up the searches for scantily clad/nude men pictures…tons and tons of websites.
Okay, so now I’m thinking…is this normal? Do guys do this sometimes? Look at pictures of other nude guys to compare themselves? Maybe?
Girls – have you ever found your fiance/husband doing this? Guys – be honest, do you sometimes do this as well? Do I need to be worried? I love this man so much.