(Closed) should I be worried about what she thinks of an invitation to my wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

No – the last thing you should think about it is her response.

Even if I do get invitations where I don’t understand why I am invited I still feel honoured that the want me involved in their day!

I also think it is better that she wonders why you invited her rather than her waiting for your invite and it never comes!

Post # 4
369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Agree with PP.  Since she did get an invite to the e-party, I’m sure she’s expecting one to the wedding.  It is hard to stay in touch somestimes, but I’m sure she rememebers those past times with as much fondness as you do.  I don’t think she’ll think you are desperate for friends, but understand that because of your past, you want her to be there for your big day.

I invited several people who I have fallen out of touch with in the last few years because of moves and marriages etc.  I don’t think any of them thought it was odd to get the invitation and several of them have already RSVP’d yes.  🙂

Post # 5
1941 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I THINK it’s humorous that you post this, and then a few days later, post this:


And I quote you:

–really long, complicated relationship questions like “should I invite this person” with way too many details, or especially without any helpful paragraph spacing or summaries!

I’m not trying to be a bitch, just point out that we’re all victims of including “too many details” and not using “helpful paragraph spacing” so please next time before you start an entire post to rant about something on the bee, check your own posts 🙂 we’re all human, and none of us are perfect!


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