(Closed) Should I have boot my bridesmaid?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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46590 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

The title of your post is “Should I boot a bridesmaid?”

Apparently you don’t need to worry about that any more.

No, you are not a bad person.

Post # 5
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385 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think you made the right choice. She sounds very self-centered. And if she decides not to be your friend anymore because of it, then she probably wasnt a great friend to begin with.

Post # 6
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1177 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I think you should just be honest and say while you value her friendship and want her at the wedding, the fact that she has been so inconsistent stresses you out and you don’t want to add that stress to the normal stress of planning a wedding.

I don’t think you were in the wrong, I think you just need to communicate about it. I really understand, because one of my best friends is ALWAYS late.. To everything. I’ve managed to work around it for hanging out (I won’t leave to meet her until a half hour or so after she said we’d meet, for instance) but even though she’s such a good friend… I plan to be upfront about why I didn’t ask her to be a bridesmaid. She knows it drives me nuts so it shouldn’t come as a shock, lol.. Point is, I fully understand!

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