Should I break up with him??

posted 2 weeks ago in Relationships
  • poll: Should I break up with him?
    yes : (48 votes)
    100 %
    no : (0 votes)
  • Post # 2
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    Honey bee

    Do you really have to ask?

    Post # 3
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    Helper bee

    I would (and have), for either of those reasons (quick temper, lack of trust) much less both.

    Post # 4
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    Helper bee

    Gianna2 :  What things has he done, what things did you do in return?

    This all sounds so immature.

    Post # 5
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2015

     Yes, because this relationship is not healthy (reference: previous post about social media).

    Post # 6
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 1997

    The reality is that whenever someone asks if they should break up with someone, the answer is virtually always yes. Here’s the reason: you have thought about it enough to consider it, and you’re looking for external validation of your own feelings. You KNOW it isn’t a healthy situation, but you don’t want to have to “blame” yourself for the breakup. 

    All that aside, yes. You should break up with him. 

    Post # 7
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    Worker bee

    Do you mind if I ask, how old are you? Because that lie has got to be the CLEAR sign 

    Post # 8
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    Sugar bee

    Your entire relationship is immature. Time to move on.

    Post # 9
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    Helper bee

    Doesn’t seem like there’s any trust between the two of you, and for good reason. So I voted for ‘yes’.

    Post # 10
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    Helper bee

    it doesn’t matter what happened or didn’t, if you have any doubts; RUN!

    Post # 11
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2018

    It sounds like you already know what you need to do.

    Post # 12
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: City, State

    Gianna2 :  

     . . I don’t and can’t trust him.

    The real issue here, Bee, is what keeps you in a relationship with a guy you can’t trust?

    Post # 13
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    Worker bee

    Gianna2 :  Break up with him bee. You deserve better. 

    Post # 14
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 2019 - City, State

    Why do you want to continue a relationship with someone you cant trust? How do you expect to ever build a life that you feel happy in when you cant ask a legitimate question without it blowing up into a fight? This relationship sounds like a colossal waste of your time bee.

    Post # 15
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    Busy bee

    Gianna2 :  

    As I said in a comment on your previous post, this man is emotionally unavailable.

    Believe me when I tell you that this is ALL the reason you will ever need to break up with him.

    It does not matter a jot how much you love him – if he is emotionally unavailable, you are in for a miserable relationship.

    (I won’t comment at this stage on your issues – which I also think are real and need work.)

    But yes, absolutely and without hesitation, you should break up with him.

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