Post # 16
Yup. Absolutely end the relationship.
If you can’t trust him now, you never will. The condom thing sounds shady. And if he is constantly on the defense, how in the world are you supposed to be comfortable speaking with him?
That’s unhealthy communication. And he’s immature for not being able to sit and speak with you without raising his voice or becoming irate. He needs to definitely work on himself, and for you I’d suggest working on trust complications with other people.
You can’t have a healthy relationship without having a healthy relationship with yourself.
Post # 17
Also, I commented on the last two posts. I’ll repost my advice here. I am truly speaking to you out of love. Out of six relationships, I swear I can relate to where you are right now. I stayed single for four years to work on myself and it was an excellent decision.
Previous post comment:
“Hey girl, I remember your post about having issues with how he told you he loved you, and now you’re wanting him to change his profile picture.
Maybe it’s time to evaluate if this is the relationship for you. Personally, I know I couldn’t be happy with someone I had to doubt is fully committed to me based on the information you’ve provided to us about your relationship. It can be recovered, but he has to want to commit. And it sounds like he isn’t fully in the relationship.
YOU can’t control his actions, you can only control how you react. Focus on yourself and how you feel. That will give you everything you need to know about what to do next in this relationship. Don’t focus on how long you’ve been together, if he moved on, how attractive he is, etc. Focus on YOU. “