(Closed) Should I call my Mom out on this?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Call her out on it. Otherwise it will eat at you.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think you should be honest and tell her how you came across the message and you’re just wondering how she really feels. Since you still have a few months before the wedding (mine is the same day btw) it might be better to get things out in the open and work through them.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’d definitely say something, if I were you. If she really feels that way, she needs to come clean too.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yeah, but I think you need to address it as “Mom, what am I doing that is making you feel this way, how can I make this better?” instead of “Why did you go behind my back?”

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

you need to be honest with her. Just try and be respectful and honest with her. dont do the blame game. give her the benefit of the doubt but tell her how hurt you are. This is your mother, she loves you very much I am sure. 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Definitely ask her about it. For the sake of being honest and for your own clarification! Totally agree with @Rubies though, tread lightly.

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