- 4 years ago
- Wedding: November 2014
So my bachelorette is supposed to be this weekend and basically until yesterday I was super excited about it. Unfortunately, a series of unfortunate events is affecting our plans. I actually don’t know all the details but due to a slip of the tongue on the part of one of my BMs, I’m pretty sure it involves the rennaissance faire.
One Bridesmaid or Best Man has a family baby shower to attend and will be coming late.
I got a text from my Maid/Matron of Honor that a family friend is on hospice care and they are basically waiting for the call but she doesn’t think the funeral will be Saturday.
Then I came down with bronchitis very quickly. I’m already feeling much better having been to the doctor but I doubt I will be 100% by this weekend.
When I checked in on my Maid/Matron of Honor to make sure she was doing okay, I found out she thinks she has strep and can’t get in to the doctor until Friday.
So that makes exactly one person without a conflict and/or illness.
Would it be selfish of me to cancel this event? They’ve spent time planning this event and I don’t want that to go to waste but at the same time, I don’t want to stress anyone out due to illness or conflict. Or should I leave the call up to my MOH? I told her yesterday that if she needed to call it off I would completely understand and wouldn’t be upset at all. Thoughts?